Agree with most of this.Women are like bloodhounds. They can sniff out a man who is needy and desperate. They can also sniff out a man who isn’t.
If a woman sees you as the latter, approaching her is a compliment to her. She will feel as if you are selecting her above all of the others, hence why approaching women can be highly effective if you’re capable of it.
The problem with most PUAs is that they seldom convey this very well, most likely because it is just an act or a routine or a behavioral blueprint, rather than a genuine act of interest. A woman will sense he does it all of the time with any woman the “PUA” sees. There is nothing special about it. Any woman will do. Hence, a man can appear very needy and desperate even when he’s trying so hard to be smooth and nonchalant.
PUA = fake it till you make it.
A DJ is already a made man.
The dj part is questionable at best.
There's threads for eons of men chasing cratered SMV, single moms,and old ladies who jumped off the d/carousel.
A lot of guys are soft as ****.