Cold Approach (Mode X) Field Report

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Yeah man..

I haven't been out cold approaching much lately. I am saving up for a motorcycle and I am about a month and a half from accomplishing that goal before I can get out more and be free.

But, as of today 10-7

Got the #..
9/15 = 60% out of a targeted goal of 35%

Got Intimately Physical
2/9 = 22% out of a targeted goal of 35%

22% is unacceptable, but better days are to come, trust me.
 

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About to share how I got 3 numbers in one day..and the moral of this story is simple; although exchanging contact information with a woman is certainly the first step in making shiit happen, until you actually make shiit happen, exchanging contact information doesn't mean a DAMN THING!!

The story goes a little something like this...

About 2 weeks ago, I decided to do some cold approaching at my favorite Walmart in the city. It is a straight shot en route to going home from work.

I go inside and do my usual sweep of the store, from the grocery side to the general merchandise side.

Nothing was popping on the grocery side, so I made my way to the GM side.
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As I am headed to that side, I pass the electronics department. There is a black lady working the counter. She must have been working there for the past 8 years, because I remember her from at least 8 years ago...and at the time, she had some HUGE titties.

She had gotten a breast reduction a few years ago, but I hadn't seen her in a minute.

She was dealing with a customer at the counter, and I was standing a distance away deciphering whether or not to approach her as I kept looking at her chest and trying to see if it was worth the bother.

After using my "Terminator" vision and analyzing her, I decided it wasn't worth it, and turned around to continue my sweep of that side of the store.

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When I turned around, I saw this dark-skinned, short-haired, slim woman in the small aisle directly across from electronics.

She was looking at some of the items on the shelves, and my movement sparked her to look up.

When she looked up, she turned her eyes away from the items on the shelf, just to look back at me again.

I am analyzing her energy and it is clear she is giving me heavy choosing signals because she kept doing it.

So I went over and approached her.

Let me say this; this chick did not have an attractive face and her chest size just barely made the charts.

I wouldn't have initiated the approach if it weren't for her giving me choosing signals.

That in itself made her attractive, which had nothing to do with anything physically related to her.
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I used my bank robbery method, and after exchanging pleasantries and contact information...before we parted ways I went mode one on her. Full mode one.

"I want to have sex with you".

You can tell she was caught off guard by it, and to be honest, it kind of messed up the vibe.

But here is the thing; she wasn't very attractive, at least physically...

Lets break it down..

Chest size: 3
Face: 3
Height: 4
Personality: 10

Total rating: 5

I will leave the story there for now. Will come back later or tomorrow to finish it off with her and the two other women.

Stay tuned.
 

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About to share how I got 3 numbers in one day..and the moral of this story is simple; although exchanging contact information with a woman is certainly the first step in making shiit happen, until you actually make shiit happen, exchanging contact information doesn't mean a DAMN THING!!

The story goes a little something like this...

About 2 weeks ago, I decided to do some cold approaching at my favorite Walmart in the city. It is a straight shot en route to going home from work.

I go inside and do my usual sweep of the store, from the grocery side to the general merchandise side.

Nothing was popping on the grocery side, so I made my way to the GM side.
-------

As I am headed to that side, I pass the electronics department. There is a black lady working the counter. She must have been working there for the past 8 years, because I remember her from at least 8 years ago...and at the time, she had some HUGE titties.

She had gotten a breast reduction a few years ago, but I hadn't seen her in a minute.

She was dealing with a customer at the counter, and I was standing a distance away deciphering whether or not to approach her as I kept looking at her chest and trying to see if it was worth the bother.

After using my "Terminator" vision and analyzing her, I decided it wasn't worth it, and turned around to continue my sweep of that side of the store.

-----

When I turned around, I saw this dark-skinned, short-haired, slim woman in the small aisle directly across from electronics.

She was looking at some of the items on the shelves, and my movement sparked her to look up.

When she looked up, she turned her eyes away from the items on the shelf, just to look back at me again.

I am analyzing her energy and it is clear she is giving me heavy choosing signals because she kept doing it.

So I went over and approached her.

Let me say this; this chick did not have an attractive face and her chest size just barely made the charts.

I wouldn't have initiated the approach if it weren't for her giving me choosing signals.

That in itself made her attractive, which had nothing to do with anything physically related to her.
----------

I used my bank robbery method, and after exchanging pleasantries and contact information...before we parted ways I went mode one on her. Full mode one.

"I want to have sex with you".

You can tell she was caught off guard by it, and to be honest, it kind of messed up the vibe.

But here is the thing; she wasn't very attractive, at least physically...

Lets break it down..

Chest size: 3
Face: 3
Height: 4
Personality: 10

Total rating: 5

I will leave the story there for now. Will come back later or tomorrow to finish it off with her and the two other women.

Stay tuned.
Good post as usual Venom.

A couple of takeaways - I agree you want to read her "energy" primarily. The vibe doesn't lie and is the hardest thing for her to hide.

Secondly, props on the breast reduction rejection. I had a bangable cougar want to bang, who was hot with smaller titties, but she told me about and showed me her prior rack of DD's and I had to eject just on principle.

@Pierce.Manhammer would have banged her though.
 

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I haven't been out cold approaching much lately. I am saving up for a motorcycle and I am about a month and a half from accomplishing that goal before I can get out more and be free.
Sure you have. Incidentally, my post happened to be the last post on your thread before that haitus. You haven't seen me post around that much and decided to have a go at it again to hope I would not interrupt your thread again this time. Does your wife like the motorcycle?
 

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Sure you have. Incidentally, my post happened to be the last post on your thread before that haitus. You haven't seen me post around that much and decided to have a go at it again to hope I would not interrupt your thread again this time. Does your wife like the motorcycle?
Do you realize the Ten Commandments, although generally good ideas, were dictates from extraterrestrials for control purposes, Corrector?

Since we're going OT and all...
 

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Sure you have. Incidentally, my post happened to be the last post on your thread before that haitus.
Dude, first of all, I hadn't even visited this thread since my last post (before today), nor was I notified that you made a post since our last encounter.

So you are giving yourself undue credit as it relates to anything pertaining to me.

But, when you can't give yourself genuine credit in the world of dating, you have to try to find it somewhere.

You haven't seen me post around that much and decided to have a go at it again to hope I would not interrupt your thread again this time.
What???? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Dude, me pointing and laughing at you is just about the only consideration you get from me.

Does your wife like the motorcycle?
Does the chick you finally grew the balls to talk to, do she like motorcycles?

And btw, I have some stories I will be sharing soon...and it involves encounters with women at the workplace.

My conversations and activities at the workplace as it relates to women are vastly different from yours...not even in the same universe.

It's a shame that you've been on here since 2009 and have very little to show for it in your dating/love life.
 

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I only ask for contact information after I have arranged a date with someone during an in-person approach.
Yeah, but see; that only pushes the process one step backwards.

If the goal is physical, intimate contact (which it is for me), then even going on a date doesn't mean a damn thing.

However, if you aren't looking at her for strict lay purposes (but something more)...a date/non sexual time is required.
 

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Dude, first of all, I hadn't even visited this thread since my last post (before today), nor was I notified that you made a post since our last encounter.

So you are giving yourself undue credit as it relates to anything pertaining to me.

But, when you can't give yourself genuine credit in the world of dating, you have to try to find it somewhere.



What???? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Dude, me pointing and laughing at you is just about the only consideration you get from me.



Does the chick you finally grew the balls to talk to, do she like motorcycles?

And btw, I have some stories I will be sharing soon...and it involves encounters with women at the workplace.

My conversations and activities at the workplace as it relates to women are vastly different from yours...not even in the same universe.

It's a shame that you've been on here since 2009 and have very little to show for it in your dating/love life.
Why are you so defensive every time I talk about your wife. It kind of disqualifies you since you are a cheat. You can attack me, but it really makes you look small since I dont have anything to lose as I am not making any claims like you are. You have more rep points to lose than I do. You are acting like you have really no legitimacy to your great claims by even going there.
 

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If the goal is physical, intimate contact (which it is for me), then even going on a date doesn't mean a damn thing.

However, if you aren't looking at her for strict lay purposes (but something more)...a date/non sexual time is required.
This is a fair point. For men who want longer term relationships, arranging a first date in-person, then collecting her information makes sense.

If the goal is solely sex, you either want to get same night sex from a nightlife venue visit or get someone from a non-bar approach who is down to go to your place immediately or is fine with having you over at hers.
 

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Good post as usual Venom.

A couple of takeaways - I agree you want to read her "energy" primarily. The vibe doesn't lie and is the hardest thing for her to hide.
Overall, I think I am good at detecting and reading the energy.

But sometimes, it can be challenging.

Is she being kind and social to me because she is feeling me, or is she just a genuinely kind and social person?

Secondly, props on the breast reduction rejection. I had a bangable cougar want to bang, who was hot with smaller titties, but she told me about and showed me her prior rack of DD's and I had to eject just on principle.
What do you mean eject?

@Pierce.Manhammer would have banged her though.
She is certainly bangable, however, too much damage had been done lol.
 

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Why are you so defensive every time I talk about your wife. It kind of disqualifies you since you are a cheat.
Tell ya what; if you want to talk to me about my wife/marriage...pm me.
 

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This is a fair point. For men who want longer term relationships, arranging a first date in-person, then collecting her information makes sense.

If the goal is solely sex, you either want to get same night sex from a nightlife venue visit or get someone from a non-bar approach who is down to go to your place immediately or is fine with having you over at hers.
Not necessarily immediately.

But immediately enough.
 

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Overall, I think I am good at detecting and reading the energy.

But sometimes, it can be challenging.

Is she being kind and social to me because she is feeling me, or is she just a genuinely kind and social person?



What do you mean eject?



She is certainly bangable, however, too much damage had been done lol.
Well isn't Mode One for confirming interest level?

By eject I mean walk away from the interaction (this was online and we never met up). It wasn't just the "what could have been" factor with the bigger titties, it's also the "I don't give a damn about maximizing my attractiveness" factor. Big turn off when it comes to titties, I just don't like reductions unless they're still hella big after the procedure.
 

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Well isn't Mode One for confirming interest level?
Sure. I guess you can look at it that way.

By eject I mean walk away from the interaction (this was online and we never met up). It wasn't just the "what could have been" factor with the bigger titties, it's also the "I don't give a damn about maximizing my attractiveness" factor.
?

Big turn off when it comes to titties, I just don't like reductions unless they're still hella big after the procedure.
I don't like reductions or implants.

Big turnoffs.
 

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Back to the story. So, I left girl # 1 after our last awkward exchange when I tell her I wanted to have sex with her.

To be honest, she seemed completed turned off by it despite pleasant exchanges prior.

Oh well.

What I forgot to mention is, during our exchange, she had called me so that I had her number on my phone.

I left her and went towards the other end of the store.

I observed a woman in one of the aisles by the auto department.

Her back was towards me, and I wanted to get a good look at her fronts.

She was standing at the end of the aisle, leaning against her cart looking at her phone.

So I walked down the aisle next to her to meet her at the end.

When I saw her fronts, I was not disappointed. She had nice sized boobies and was now a target.

How did she look?

Titties: 7
Face: 6
Height: 7
Personality: 8
Rating: 7

After applying my bank robbery method, I noticed that it wouldn't work. Why? Because this woman is VERY social and her personality is very hip and sparkly.

I have this thing where I like to predict a woman's age, which I am good at.

But not with her. I predicted her age to be in her mid 50's, but she told me she is 68.

She is very talkative, so we stood there talking for about 5 minutes.

Whats funny is, as me and her were talking, I happened to turn my head and saw girl #1 had managed to somehow make her way towards our area...and when she saw me talking to girl #2, she turned around.

Girl #2, upon seeing this, playfully asked me was that my wife (I told her I was married).

I told her no.

I went Mode One on her, as I called my attention to her chest I said "I want to suck those".

She said "You and everyone else".

After I told her I was married, the vibe kinda changed for the worse.

I brought the attention back to her chest she seemed turned off by it now.

I got her number, but it sounded like she wanted to friendszone me by giving me the "we can be cool" spiel.

Oh well.

So, I left her...did a small sweep of the store and left.

When I went outside, I called girl #1 to see where her mind was.

She told me she couldn't find her phone and that was the start of a nice, brief conversation.
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The thing about girl #1 was, she had a COOL personality and I can tell me and her would have hit it off nice.

She declined my offers for sex without being too standoffish, which I respect. She picked my brain about my Mode One approach and its methodology, and I had fun breaking it down to her.

Like I said, she was cool.

But at the end of the day, she did not want to have a fwb relationship....so, enough said.

Moving on..

I hopped on the bus...which takes me to my next story...stay tuned for that..

Here is a pic of girl #2.

Them titties looked YUMMY.

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