"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cold appraoch or social circle game @ small college?

JasonTodd

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Greetings fellow DJ's

Just joined & had a quick thought I wanted to run by you all. I'll be heading to college in the Fall, but this college is actually pretty small compared to most(1000 student population) so I'm trying to determine whether cold approach is a good idea or not? I'm going to try and game as much as possible and somewhat of an advantage that I have is that a lot of the "10's" at this school barely get approached or hit on because a lot of the dudes there are total chodes. The 3 times I've visited the school and been to the events, I've seen that its true. NO ONE games. And I'm hoping that my game is up to where I want it to be by then so I can score the hotties. Do you think Social Circle Game would be better than Cold approach?

Thanks for any input bro's!

-Jason :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Purefilth

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Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
 

Bible_Belt

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I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
This is exactly what I needed to hear, thanks man! :up:
 

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Purefilth said:
Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
This got me thinking, thanks for your input bro. You make sense! :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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