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She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cold appraoch or social circle game @ small college?

JasonTodd

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Greetings fellow DJ's

Just joined & had a quick thought I wanted to run by you all. I'll be heading to college in the Fall, but this college is actually pretty small compared to most(1000 student population) so I'm trying to determine whether cold approach is a good idea or not? I'm going to try and game as much as possible and somewhat of an advantage that I have is that a lot of the "10's" at this school barely get approached or hit on because a lot of the dudes there are total chodes. The 3 times I've visited the school and been to the events, I've seen that its true. NO ONE games. And I'm hoping that my game is up to where I want it to be by then so I can score the hotties. Do you think Social Circle Game would be better than Cold approach?

Thanks for any input bro's!

-Jason :cool:
 

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Purefilth

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Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
 

Bible_Belt

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I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
This is exactly what I needed to hear, thanks man! :up:
 

JasonTodd

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Purefilth said:
Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
This got me thinking, thanks for your input bro. You make sense! :cool:
 

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