"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cold appraoch or social circle game @ small college?

JasonTodd

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Greetings fellow DJ's

Just joined & had a quick thought I wanted to run by you all. I'll be heading to college in the Fall, but this college is actually pretty small compared to most(1000 student population) so I'm trying to determine whether cold approach is a good idea or not? I'm going to try and game as much as possible and somewhat of an advantage that I have is that a lot of the "10's" at this school barely get approached or hit on because a lot of the dudes there are total chodes. The 3 times I've visited the school and been to the events, I've seen that its true. NO ONE games. And I'm hoping that my game is up to where I want it to be by then so I can score the hotties. Do you think Social Circle Game would be better than Cold approach?

Thanks for any input bro's!

-Jason :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Purefilth

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Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
 

Bible_Belt

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I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I went to a school of 2,000 for a year. 85% of the students were in a frat or sorority. Most peoples' sex lives was determined by who they went home drunk with from the party or the bar. Then the next day they pretend it never happened. Everyone knows everyone, so you don't want to be "that guy" who is trying to hit on every girl he sees in the hallway. It's fine to talk to people, but a good approach is one that cannot be identified as "an approach" if you know what I mean. It's more likely to be something about what bar or party is of interest that evening. Then you run into the girl there, you're that cute guy from class, and the drunker she is, the cuter you are.
This is exactly what I needed to hear, thanks man! :up:
 

JasonTodd

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Purefilth said:
Heres a plan.
Cold approach them ALL, and add them all into your social circle.

Job done. :D



Seriously, it aint even kidding. Why wouldnt you try to get to know as many as possible and expand your options.

How will you even get a social circle without some approaches?
This got me thinking, thanks for your input bro. You make sense! :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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