"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cognitive Psychology Is The Answer To Aa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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COGNIVE THERAPY is the key to AA ( aaron beck albert ellis martin seligman )
things you gotta to say to yourelf at the grocery store

there s this hot chick you want to approach

write the following on a slip of paper


"I LL ASK HER ABOUT THIS CHEESE IT S JUST A FIENDLY Q SHE WON T INSULT ME or blow me off "

"PICKING UP WOMEN IS FUTILE WELL LOADS OF PLAYERS DO IT"

"FUTILE ? , I KNOW THIS GUY WHO S LEARNING HOW TO THROW A BOOMERANg THAT S COULD BE INTERPRETED AS BEING FUTILE
" it is not right to approach shopping women why not? i kNow people who met on the train "

" i don t what to say ? have a scripted convo with her always the same convo "


" some women would love to approach guys but society s pevented to to do so so they re happy that you , a guy take the responsibility for doing it '

' i ll pretend i am writing a book on the art of making friends "

" i am not in the mood this morning !!! i ll just approach 3 and then n i ll have a beer down the road JUST 3 chicks "


YOU FIND THAT COGNITIVE PSYCHOLOGY HAS THE ANSWERS TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
PURCHASE " LEARNED OPTIMISM by MARTIN SELIGMAN
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ALPHAROMEO

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I Ll Have A Short Convo With Her Not More Than Three Minutes


I S A Bit Of A Drag Having To Have A Convo With A Chick Come On Just Three Minutes Make A Little Effort

Women On The Whole Like Helping Out A Desperte Mal Shopper

Trying Is Succeeding
 

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Mate if I had this written on card in my pocket by the time I've deciphered it she would be long gone
ALPHAROMEO said:
"I LL ASK HER ABOUT THIS CHEESE IT S JUST A FIENDLY Q SHE WON T INSULT ME or blow me off "
Just a heads up, your excessive use of exclamation points, mid-sentence capitals and incorrect spellings really detracts from the message you are trying to get across. Using coherent prose goes a long way in successfully communicating with other people.
 

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ALPHAROMEO? MORE LIKE ALLCAPSROMEO AMIRIGHT? LOL.

You're giving some nice tips but your mindset is off imo. AA can also be related to physical aspects, like low serotonin. But thanks for some of these tips!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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