"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cognitive Psychology Is The Answer To Aa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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COGNIVE THERAPY is the key to AA ( aaron beck albert ellis martin seligman )
things you gotta to say to yourelf at the grocery store

there s this hot chick you want to approach

write the following on a slip of paper


"I LL ASK HER ABOUT THIS CHEESE IT S JUST A FIENDLY Q SHE WON T INSULT ME or blow me off "

"PICKING UP WOMEN IS FUTILE WELL LOADS OF PLAYERS DO IT"

"FUTILE ? , I KNOW THIS GUY WHO S LEARNING HOW TO THROW A BOOMERANg THAT S COULD BE INTERPRETED AS BEING FUTILE
" it is not right to approach shopping women why not? i kNow people who met on the train "

" i don t what to say ? have a scripted convo with her always the same convo "


" some women would love to approach guys but society s pevented to to do so so they re happy that you , a guy take the responsibility for doing it '

' i ll pretend i am writing a book on the art of making friends "

" i am not in the mood this morning !!! i ll just approach 3 and then n i ll have a beer down the road JUST 3 chicks "


YOU FIND THAT COGNITIVE PSYCHOLOGY HAS THE ANSWERS TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
PURCHASE " LEARNED OPTIMISM by MARTIN SELIGMAN
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Ll Have A Short Convo With Her Not More Than Three Minutes


I S A Bit Of A Drag Having To Have A Convo With A Chick Come On Just Three Minutes Make A Little Effort

Women On The Whole Like Helping Out A Desperte Mal Shopper

Trying Is Succeeding
 
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Mate if I had this written on card in my pocket by the time I've deciphered it she would be long gone
ALPHAROMEO said:
"I LL ASK HER ABOUT THIS CHEESE IT S JUST A FIENDLY Q SHE WON T INSULT ME or blow me off "
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Just a heads up, your excessive use of exclamation points, mid-sentence capitals and incorrect spellings really detracts from the message you are trying to get across. Using coherent prose goes a long way in successfully communicating with other people.
 
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ALPHAROMEO? MORE LIKE ALLCAPSROMEO AMIRIGHT? LOL.

You're giving some nice tips but your mindset is off imo. AA can also be related to physical aspects, like low serotonin. But thanks for some of these tips!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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