"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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Coffee with sugar?

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Just have to be careful on teas to check if there is any caffeine on it. That case would be better no caffeine teas.
Well actually tea contains a different type of it usually called "Theanine" and the amounts is so small that you would need to drink several loads of tank trucks to receive any effect and/or getting addicted to it. It don't think it is even possible. You would need to drink a insane amounts of tea to even get close to the effect you have from just one cup of coffee.

Found this about the subject of tea too:
https://www.lautrethe.com/gb/blog/post/6-theine-caffeine.html
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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StarZucks is bad for you mate. These fking coffeeshops are overpricing their products with at least 200-400 %.
We have the same in here in both Sweden and Denmark. The local coffee shop around the corner where I live charges a whopping 4.23 USD just for a Croissant; let me repeat that just ONE freaking croissant.. and all the other food and beverage prices are totally crazy too of course.

Now If you go to the baker on the other corner of the same street, you can basically buy the same croissant for 0.60 USD.... which says a lot about how greedy these coffeeshops are.
 

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Well actually tea contains a different type of it usually called "Theanine" and the amounts is so small that you would need to drink several loads of tank trucks to receive any effect and/or getting addicted to it. It don't think it is even possible. You would need to drink a insane amounts of tea to even get close to the effect you have from just one cup of coffee.

Found this about the subject of tea too:
https://www.lautrethe.com/gb/blog/post/6-theine-caffeine.html
The best test to do on it is to stop for some days and check your cravings on it. If you can control and not feel any cravings for 7 days at least than its really not a problem and the amount is not big enough to take you back to the addiction.

Just be careful to some matcha teas, cause it seems they are high in theines/caffeine. I tried it for a time and I observed my intake rising and anxiety gone high again. Not had that bad crash like coffee but I saw it was not a good idea for me.
 

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Its virtually impossible to have cravings for tea or/and get addicted to it.
Never had it and probably never will. I just drink it occasionally when I feel for it. :)
Thats good! :)

What teas do you usually drink? When I drink some usually it is chamomile or sweet herb that have some calm down effects.
 
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