"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Coco Lee: Disney star and pop singer dies at 48

BadBoy89

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Now this is tragic and unfortunate. God Bless.

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Coco Lee, at only 48 years old, she has left behind a legacy of musical excellence that has touched the hearts of many. Despite her success in the music industry, Lee’s deepest desire was to become a good wife and mother. She had been married to her Canadian tycoon husband Bruce Rockowitz for 12 years, but the couple struggled to conceive a child.

Lee, who had been based in Los Angeles with her husband, had undergone 9 rounds of artificial insemination in the hope of becoming pregnant. She spoke candidly about her experience during an interview in March 2018, saying, “The process is very difficult”

Lee’s struggle with infertility and her candidness about it has shed light on the issue and inspired many women to speak out and seek help. Her legacy lives on not only in her music but also in her bravery and openness about her personal struggles.

Lee’s career had reached heights. earning her fame across China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan. She had also released four English albums, cementing her status as an international superstar.

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Thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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Here are my thoughts:
I had no idea who this was, so I had to look her up. Basically she was a pop singer, so no wonder I didn't know her. I stopped paying attention to current music somewhere back in the '90s.

She ended her own life, I don't know why, but from what you say maybe she was depressed because she couldn't get pregnant? 48 seems too old to try to have a child anyway, but it's certainly sad to die at such a relatively young age. It's also sad when people can be so successful, but unable to find personal happiness. I admire her for wanting to have children at least, when it seems like so many modern women have abandoned their gender role of reproducing and being mothers.
 

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It's a Disney star, can't take their lives at face value. Most of them are phucked up from abuse.
 
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