I have this co-worker she has a boyfriend, we talk occassionaly, we have had lunch once, shes told me I'm nice on numerous occasionsion, she always touches my shoulder and my arm, we were talking today about work and out of nowhere she pinches my cheek, I say "what did i have something on my face?" and she looks at me and tells me "no, all I did was this" and she pinches me on the cheek again. Does she like me? What should my next move be.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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