"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Co-Worker

trufun

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I have this co-worker she has a boyfriend, we talk occassionaly, we have had lunch once, shes told me I'm nice on numerous occasionsion, she always touches my shoulder and my arm, we were talking today about work and out of nowhere she pinches my cheek, I say "what did i have something on my face?" and she looks at me and tells me "no, all I did was this" and she pinches me on the cheek again. Does she like me? What should my next move be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ask her out and you will know...
 

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trufun said:
.. and she looks at me and tells me "no, all I did was this" and she pinches me on the cheek again. Does she like me? What should my next move be.
I would pinch her on the butt . If she is hot for you she will react accordingly . However, if she is just toying with you, she will march down to HR and you will have some explaining to do to those sour baitches down there.
 
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