"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Co-worker(HB7-8?) trying to 'break' me?

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Alright, So I am a supervisor at a local restaraunt(Subway if you must ask) and I am the only male employee. This really isn't as great as it sounds because most of them are 3-4's. Recently we gained a new employee who i would say is a 7 or an 8. Off from the get go I established that I think of her as "one of the guys"(I tell myself that so I dont have employee relationships?) and I think she took that as a challenge. So for the past month or so she has become increasingly flirty(bending over and stuff) and asking me stuff about girls that I may or may not like.

What am I getting at? Well...., I think she is trying to 'break' me, and get me to admit that she is attractive and/or like her. Now this wouldn't be a problem but I am 75% sure that she would leave it at that. Really I was just looking for comments and opinions from the rest of you peeps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jay Jay

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I'd keep acting the way you are. That way you'll have a hot girl being sexy all day at work.

You gotta work it so that the only way she will ever break you is by putting out.

JJ
 

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i have 2 rules, i dont date people at work or school... to much drama (i go to a trade school, not a big college). You could lead her on and **** with her... or ask her if she has any hot friends and see how she takes that.
 

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Yeah, I basically spend the entire night working with her by ****ing with her head(in a playful jerkish manner). She has quite a few hot friends, so my original intent was to gain brownie points through her. I also won't date anyone from work or school, but the surrounding towns are filled with yeast infected sluts so...=/ that kinda sucks man.

In response to Jay Jay: It is quite enjoyable working with her because we BS and embarass eachother at work. Wouldn't mind ****ing her(wouldnt mind? I might pay someone) but she is an employee.

Thanks for responses guys.
 
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