"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Co-worker(HB7-8?) trying to 'break' me?

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Alright, So I am a supervisor at a local restaraunt(Subway if you must ask) and I am the only male employee. This really isn't as great as it sounds because most of them are 3-4's. Recently we gained a new employee who i would say is a 7 or an 8. Off from the get go I established that I think of her as "one of the guys"(I tell myself that so I dont have employee relationships?) and I think she took that as a challenge. So for the past month or so she has become increasingly flirty(bending over and stuff) and asking me stuff about girls that I may or may not like.

What am I getting at? Well...., I think she is trying to 'break' me, and get me to admit that she is attractive and/or like her. Now this wouldn't be a problem but I am 75% sure that she would leave it at that. Really I was just looking for comments and opinions from the rest of you peeps.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay Jay

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I'd keep acting the way you are. That way you'll have a hot girl being sexy all day at work.

You gotta work it so that the only way she will ever break you is by putting out.

JJ
 

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i have 2 rules, i dont date people at work or school... to much drama (i go to a trade school, not a big college). You could lead her on and **** with her... or ask her if she has any hot friends and see how she takes that.
 

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Yeah, I basically spend the entire night working with her by ****ing with her head(in a playful jerkish manner). She has quite a few hot friends, so my original intent was to gain brownie points through her. I also won't date anyone from work or school, but the surrounding towns are filled with yeast infected sluts so...=/ that kinda sucks man.

In response to Jay Jay: It is quite enjoyable working with her because we BS and embarass eachother at work. Wouldn't mind ****ing her(wouldnt mind? I might pay someone) but she is an employee.

Thanks for responses guys.
 
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