"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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****ing guy. This dude at work continuously ****-blocks me behind my back to all the good looking females at work. i can't even talk to them or have a friendly get to-gether with these girls cause he tells them **** about what i did to a fat ex co-worker (i ate her out, but i was piss drunk).

we have these ****ing pictures of "great employees" past and present on the office hallway wall, and the fat girl is on there. i was there when he showed the fat girl's photo to one of the hotties and he makes a remark "yeah, she and him were close i heard," and they chuckle. if it weren't for the picture, i';d be cool...so what i eat the *****? they'd love that

i want to tear that goddamn photo down because she looks awful, but i want to kick this guy's ass even more.

i know i ****ed up, getting with her and her being a co-worker, but she was on the way out and i said what the hell. we had drinks and one thing lead to another.

how do i resolve this or manipulate it to make me look good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my thread on same topic

Yeah. Been down that road. Do you think this guy could be envious of you? Why do you think he's trying to bring you down personally?
 
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reset said:
my thread on same topic

Yeah. Been down that road. Do you think this guy could be envious of you? Why do you think he's trying to bring you down personally?
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dude has an ego problem and he knows his alpha male bs wont work on me. we nearly had a physical confrontation cause the ******* took my food out of the microwave before it was done. i was going to pummel his ass and he knew it. plus we're the only relatively young males in the office, every other guy being old military. he wants to compete or some ****, i dont know
 
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he's an insecure dude. He probably thinks you have more status than him and he's trying to make you look dumb. All it does is make him look dumb. It might even work in your favor with the girls because they can sense he's threatened by you. They'll wonder why.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He's doing it because he can. He spots a weakness in you and he's exploiting it. He wouldn't do it if I was there.
 
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Call HR on his ass. Say he is spreading rumers about you and that you overheard him talking about you sleeping with other coworkers which is not true.

Honestly man, you shouldnt be dating/sleeping with any girls at work. It can get really ugly, only way i would recommend it is if you dont care about your job. When i was part time 17years old at my job, i literally had phone numbers of all the White girls that were working at my company. **Only reason i didnt care about black girls is because they were unattractive and i dated many of them in HS (I am not racist lol)** I messed around with all of them and didnt give a ****. Now that i am 21 and a supervisor in the company, i still have most of their numbers but i never call them. Even though they flirt with me more than ever especially since i became supervisor but now that i care about my job i dont give any of them a chance even though i been single for a while now.
 
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