"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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co-worker c*ckblocking me from all the office chics

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****ing guy. This dude at work continuously ****-blocks me behind my back to all the good looking females at work. i can't even talk to them or have a friendly get to-gether with these girls cause he tells them **** about what i did to a fat ex co-worker (i ate her out, but i was piss drunk).

we have these ****ing pictures of "great employees" past and present on the office hallway wall, and the fat girl is on there. i was there when he showed the fat girl's photo to one of the hotties and he makes a remark "yeah, she and him were close i heard," and they chuckle. if it weren't for the picture, i';d be cool...so what i eat the *****? they'd love that

i want to tear that goddamn photo down because she looks awful, but i want to kick this guy's ass even more.

i know i ****ed up, getting with her and her being a co-worker, but she was on the way out and i said what the hell. we had drinks and one thing lead to another.

how do i resolve this or manipulate it to make me look good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my thread on same topic

Yeah. Been down that road. Do you think this guy could be envious of you? Why do you think he's trying to bring you down personally?
 
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my thread on same topic

Yeah. Been down that road. Do you think this guy could be envious of you? Why do you think he's trying to bring you down personally?
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dude has an ego problem and he knows his alpha male bs wont work on me. we nearly had a physical confrontation cause the ******* took my food out of the microwave before it was done. i was going to pummel his ass and he knew it. plus we're the only relatively young males in the office, every other guy being old military. he wants to compete or some ****, i dont know
 
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he's an insecure dude. He probably thinks you have more status than him and he's trying to make you look dumb. All it does is make him look dumb. It might even work in your favor with the girls because they can sense he's threatened by you. They'll wonder why.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He's doing it because he can. He spots a weakness in you and he's exploiting it. He wouldn't do it if I was there.
 
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Call HR on his ass. Say he is spreading rumers about you and that you overheard him talking about you sleeping with other coworkers which is not true.

Honestly man, you shouldnt be dating/sleeping with any girls at work. It can get really ugly, only way i would recommend it is if you dont care about your job. When i was part time 17years old at my job, i literally had phone numbers of all the White girls that were working at my company. **Only reason i didnt care about black girls is because they were unattractive and i dated many of them in HS (I am not racist lol)** I messed around with all of them and didnt give a ****. Now that i am 21 and a supervisor in the company, i still have most of their numbers but i never call them. Even though they flirt with me more than ever especially since i became supervisor but now that i care about my job i dont give any of them a chance even though i been single for a while now.
 
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