CNN article on more women cheating

[sosousage]

They are so mentally weak, it's ridiculous.

I hate our feminist society so much.

Like how the fvck are all the local Home Depot's managed by women when they barely know how to swing a hammer?

Then there's your overweight female cop who does the easy work, yet still considers herself a cop like all the rest. I'd love to see her try to chase and subdue a criminal.

damn dude you hate on everything im impressed

 

[That_dude]

Very impressive I don't share the same hate for fems. However I stand by my comments about losers I'd probably turn gay before I'd hit something like that

 

[MatureDJ]

I've always hypothetically thought that if I ever got to serve on a jury in a murder case in which the perp is the victims's husband, and one of the extenuating circumstances is that he found out she had cheated on him, I would practice "jury nullification". There is a powerful evolutionarily involved instinct for a man to severely punish a woman who attempts to cuckold him.

 

[MatureDJ]

Not long after, another told me that while she'd never had sex with another man, she'd had so many emotional affairs and inappropriate email correspondences over the years that she'd had to buy a separate hard drive to store them all.

So women teasing other men is "cheating"? I guess she gets her hard drive for her racy E-mails while he gets his for his p0rn stash.

 

[MatureDJ]

I think the answer is for western men to build links to allow immigration. Not for work, but for wifing.

Even with the notorious IMBRA law, men can wife foreign women. The problem is that sometimes such foreign wives are revealed to only be in it for the green card.

 

[MatureDJ]

Right...most guys bring them over here, they stay with them for a few years and then they realize they can do a whole lot better and bounce on them

But sometimes the men bounce back!

http://www.seattlepi.com/news/article/Indle-King-found-guilty-of-killing-mail-order-1081224.php

 

[That_dude]

I’ve been through that exact situation many times. Dated a lot of amazing Asian women from overseas that lived in the US. It seemed like everyone in there mother would stereotype and hate. Especially other women. Meanwhile, I felt they were some of the best women that ever came into my life. You have a lot of closed minded people who project.

 

[Von]

It's an interesting article that touch the core of what I believe in the ''dating market''.... Heck, I am having a conversation twice a week with male and female friends about THIS! And it comes back here at least monthly

Our conversation is always: The dating market suck now, millennials have no ethic, everybody cheating, male/female role have been destroyed, we wanna act on our feeling, our parents had a better sense of duty and commitment, people can't commit now, they were raised like ''little emo prince etc etc etc..

The article does provide few cues that why woman cheat:

1. They don't fear the financial / Emotional falllout

2. The woman in the article always had to be in charge of the ''couple agenda''... likely the guy wasn't leading her (thus he got lazy)

3. They always feel as the primary victim (doing everything, always, more for less)

4. They all fear to be alone (or go through divorce like their parents)

5. They all imagine marriage to be a fairy tale (all will be perfect)

Lastly.... the ending: ''my parents were total undevoted to us, narcissistic... yet keep spooning after 60years.... while us as wife and husband we so much kids driven but we are unhappy'' (the cheating wife talking about her parents marriage vs her... in short she felt ''unsatisfied by the love from her parents who seemed in perfect love with each other,'' so she ''gives loves to her kids but it feel her husband and her are breaking appart''.....

My point of view about that part: Her parents were probably too busy building the ''need or gathering the resources for the family'' that she felt emotionally neglected but her parents were committed and had a sense of duty towards each other... than in her own marriage... she wants the kid to know what she never had (emotions from her parents) but she forgets her ''spouse role''.... and in my parent’s generation (40 to 60 years old) the parents lacking any emotional expression is a constant recurring theme.

Our parents and grand-parents lived in a world where economic crisis, food shortage, no electricity, disease could kill even the simple one, if you were poor you had a death sentence above you at all time, World Wars, beginning of technological revolutions, religion was the moral force, you had 10 kids (average, at least 5 per average), the man was the only salary, woman started the work market (due to war needs)

So they, our grand-parents and even parents... grew up in a world where they had to subdue their emotions, kill their own dream for the DUTY of the human race and their family. They worked in stuff they never liked, never wanted, probably felt that they also needed more ''cultural'' or ''emotional'' fulfillment... but they keep stick due to society pressure and life pressure. So it created a generation of kids who were thought told by their parents to be guided by their FEELINGS (parents always want to give to their kids what they never had)

However, alot of stuff was lost in the middle and in the process of a balance life... also, our generation can show that even if people were ''sticking together'' they weren't necessarily happy... they did it due to no choice (or they made the choice of not seeking more options)

I've been saying to my GF and everyone around... life is a balance.... people used to bound because of a NEED... now we do it by WANT

It's important to be sexually, emotional, physical, individually satisfied... but we most never lose the common goal of our couple

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yes, the egoistic sphere has swallowed up the ethical one, and ideology culture. It is amazing how quickly this has happened. If our exposure to mind-altering psychedelic technology is on an exponential growth curve, imagine what it will be like in just one more generation.

 

[Alpheta]

There's something to be said about a wife in the workplace. Especially if she's surrounded by powerful figures, competition and the need to compete with other women.

They'll go to great lengths to get ahead, sometimes (or often) that entails crossing boundaries with coworkers.

It's start with some innocent flirting with a smile, glance, or touch on the shoulder in passing, then escalates from there if the female travels out of town with coworkers and drinks at happy hour or schmoozing with the customer is involved.

If the husband goes full lazy, dad bod, and lazy af... this will ramp up her behavior with (e)orbiters outside the home.

This this and more this.

This might be very outlandish and i dont care if it is, but my wife will not work. I made my mind up about this sometime ago. The reason being what the poster just mentioned. Good to see that there are aware men out there.

 

[Von]

Yes, the egoistic sphere has swallowed up the ethical one, and ideology culture. It is amazing how quickly this has happened. If our exposure to mind-altering psychedelic technology is on an exponential growth curve, imagine what it will be like in just one more generation.

Definitely agréé, Technology is just an expression of the symptoms of our "society and human désire colliding"

Have you noticed that Technology is all about maximun results with the less effort or process... I saw the movie about 3 afro-american who contributed to the NASA conquest. There is 1 line of speech that got caught my attention... the NASA is sending à guy in orbit for multiple orbits turns (first time ever).. they use IBM computer to make the calculations... than they ask the afro-woman (à main character) to DOUBLE CHECK the calculations... she came up with a longer formula. In NASA context just à 0.01 différence would be a life or death sentence.. and in the movie likely also réal life... the guy re-entry is comprimised due to lack of heat shield. (the guy burning up).

So the line: "we can't really on these computers more than us"... result: IBM system had like an answer of 1.145262.... she had something like 1.14526214

The pilot took the woman advice over IBM computer (mind you: she's black and a woman in 1950.. double strike on her).. result: She was RIGHT and the IBM not

I remember Leonard Dicaprio in the Aviator.. where counted millions multiplied and did fractions on the spot in 2minutes. My dad is like that too.. my dad always say you dont need à calculator or Word corrector if you do right the first time (and yes it involved knowing rules and mental power).

Steves Job with the IPhone said... it has to be magical, anything you want, can do will happen in the palm of your hand and a baby can use it naturally. (this an extension of human)

Technology force us to delegate in the machine our capacities. For good and bad

Alot of the human factor is lost, the ethical too... and mora.. why moral? Religion had monopolized the moral enforcement... but now... their abusés and society power made religion à relic... but gotta admit the catholic church is well rejuvinating itself, protestant and muslims have been able to bound the 2 easiers, buddhism and hindu have always seen technology as an extension of their faith

I lost my track of thoughts... but we have a blend right now and changé at amore rapid space than we can adapt as human biology. And worst, we have lost the collective that binds these changes together... family structure.

Okay, I got my idea back: i was going to write about kids! And their mom

My professional female friends are going crazy in their motherhood states...why? They say they cant control their babies behaviour (6months and young)

They wake up à 4am, wake the babyn feed him, do baby swim à 6am, breakfast, work, gym etc... cause they read how to raise à baby in a book and if the baby want tobe SUPER ALPHA you have to train him young at being an adult. So they go nuts.. they dont sleep because they have to work + raise the baby in being à supermachine (hé has to be awake à this time, sleep at this time for x amount, than hé has to be doing this at this x time x amount etc..)

My italian collègue was Talking with my clients (in their 50s, housewife with 3 kids) how went woman get prégnant they are bombarded of books, letters, emails, advise on how to raise their kids... it even go up to the weight and colour of blanquet.

Hé and my clients were like Mother these days are going nuts and learning in books how to be a mom...

I added: à Child is a precious gift right? When you have 1 he is all your life. You dont want to lose him, cause after that you need to make à New one and deal with the emotional rollercoaster in the couple. While you had 3 and your parents likely 7.. if one baby passed away, it was sad and tragic but you had all the others to take care..

So yes, there is a big disbalance in how dating/couple/raising kids due to cultural/ethic/technological... and how to balance it and communicate... but that balance and communication seems to have been lost.. lost because now it aint mandatory or à necessity since you dont need others for a life

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yes, and a single child might feel like the center of the universe. A child with siblings might feel more like part of a community... like a planet in a solar system.