"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CNN article: AFC in the extreme or just "in love?"

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Wyld baby, I don't believe there is such a thing as "beyond" afc because the whole concept that the afc revolves around is that love is boundless, unconditional, eternal etc. How many men each year commit suicide believing that the girl they lost was the one for them.......i'm willing to wager it's in the thousands. (On a personal note: one of my buddies jumped off a bridge because he found out his girlfriend who had his kid cheated on him)Are all of them insane?? A low percentage probably but most have thoughts in their head that cause them severe pain and anguish....so if they follow this belief would they not be willing to empty their bank account in on single act off desperation to relieve that pain before they go off the edge....most definitly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by thefonz
Wyld baby, I don't believe there is such a thing as "beyond" afc because the whole concept that the afc revolves around is that love is boundless, unconditional, eternal etc. How many men each year commit suicide believing that the girl they lost was the one for them.......i'm willing to wager it's in the thousands. (On a personal note: one of my buddies jumped off a bridge because he found out his girlfriend who had his kid cheated on him)Are all of them insane?? A low percentage probably but most have thoughts in their head that cause them severe pain and anguish....so if they follow this belief would they not be willing to empty their bank account in on single act off desperation to relieve that pain before they go off the edge....most definitly
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.
 

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Heartbreak can be like this!! In this state its not unreasonable to be irrational... Girls are like that all the time.. Spending more on clothes than they can afford... They use shopping to take whatever pain they have away..

This guy is in alot of pain.. Its not unreasonable to spend all you got to take away that pain!!!
 

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Taken from the CNN article:
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"She said my wife read the ad and started crying. But so far I've had no response from her," Larry said.
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maybe she was crying because any respect she had for him went in the crapper once he did something so pathetic as letting the whole world know what a fool he is. Cuz everyone she knows probably knows all about it and so if she goes back everyone's gonna think it's cuz he spent 17grand to get her back.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.
so then does being an AFC mean you're mentally ill?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.

What about all those Japanese Kamakazi ? I guess there must of been a lot of mentally i'll japanese.

Is it a mental illness if you are horney all the time? What if every time you talk to a wyld woman all you can think about are her tities?

what this guy did was basically a Kamakazi act.
 
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