"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CNN article: AFC in the extreme or just "in love?"

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Wyld baby, I don't believe there is such a thing as "beyond" afc because the whole concept that the afc revolves around is that love is boundless, unconditional, eternal etc. How many men each year commit suicide believing that the girl they lost was the one for them.......i'm willing to wager it's in the thousands. (On a personal note: one of my buddies jumped off a bridge because he found out his girlfriend who had his kid cheated on him)Are all of them insane?? A low percentage probably but most have thoughts in their head that cause them severe pain and anguish....so if they follow this belief would they not be willing to empty their bank account in on single act off desperation to relieve that pain before they go off the edge....most definitly
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by thefonz
Wyld baby, I don't believe there is such a thing as "beyond" afc because the whole concept that the afc revolves around is that love is boundless, unconditional, eternal etc. How many men each year commit suicide believing that the girl they lost was the one for them.......i'm willing to wager it's in the thousands. (On a personal note: one of my buddies jumped off a bridge because he found out his girlfriend who had his kid cheated on him)Are all of them insane?? A low percentage probably but most have thoughts in their head that cause them severe pain and anguish....so if they follow this belief would they not be willing to empty their bank account in on single act off desperation to relieve that pain before they go off the edge....most definitly
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.
 

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Heartbreak can be like this!! In this state its not unreasonable to be irrational... Girls are like that all the time.. Spending more on clothes than they can afford... They use shopping to take whatever pain they have away..

This guy is in alot of pain.. Its not unreasonable to spend all you got to take away that pain!!!
 

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Taken from the CNN article:
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"She said my wife read the ad and started crying. But so far I've had no response from her," Larry said.
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maybe she was crying because any respect she had for him went in the crapper once he did something so pathetic as letting the whole world know what a fool he is. Cuz everyone she knows probably knows all about it and so if she goes back everyone's gonna think it's cuz he spent 17grand to get her back.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.
so then does being an AFC mean you're mentally ill?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
First of all, my name is "Wyld", not baby. Now that we've got that out of the way...

Anyone who commits suicide is MENTALLY ILL...period. There is no debating this issue. It's fact. Depression is a mental illness. Obsessive Infatuation is a mental illness. Spending 17k on a newspaper ad in a feeble attempt to get someone back is a sure sign of mental illness. It may be temporary, reactive or a long term issue, but it's still mental illness no matter how you slice it.

What about all those Japanese Kamakazi ? I guess there must of been a lot of mentally i'll japanese.

Is it a mental illness if you are horney all the time? What if every time you talk to a wyld woman all you can think about are her tities?

what this guy did was basically a Kamakazi act.
 
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