"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Clubs and Camera

Analytic

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I want to bring cameras into the club. I've only been to a few club and the rules regarding cameras are never clear. One club I went to doesn't even allow cellphone and other clubs you're allow to bring digital camera. I could buy one of those cellphone that has a decent camera, Nokia has one that has a 5 megapixel camera that has build in flash. Am not sure how the bouncers would react to that though, taking pictures in a dark club without flash is impossible.

What are you guys experience regarding clubs and camera?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have taken hundreds and hundreds of pics in clubs. Never had anyone say a word to me.
 

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Strip clubs and clubs that hire a candid photographer to take pics or have a photo booth set up may have a problem with outside cameras.
 

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For digitals in a club you need only modify the filters of the lens.

Go to a camera website and type in something for pictures at night.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you can bring digital camara into most night clubs except for strip clubs; i would recommend a nice small camera with a great flash like the canon sd series, and not cell phone camera since their flash is useless @ night.
 

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Hero said:
you can bring digital camara into most night clubs except for strip clubs; i would recommend a nice small camera with a great flash like the canon sd series, and not cell phone camera since their flash is useless @ night.
I have a little Pentax I bought a few years ago that's the exact same size as the Canons. I LOVE that camera. Bought a new higher res camera for work that's just a little bigger, but I still carry that Pentax when I go out.

Digital cameras are an AWESOME pickup/seduction tool. From kissy face nightclub pics, all the way to hardcore pornography......best $300 you'll ever spend :)
 

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STR8UP said:
I have a little Pentax I bought a few years ago that's the exact same size as the Canons. I LOVE that camera. Bought a new higher res camera for work that's just a little bigger, but I still carry that Pentax when I go out.

Digital cameras are an AWESOME pickup/seduction tool. From kissy face nightclub pics, all the way to hardcore pornography......best $300 you'll ever spend :)

You should post the pictures you took with your pentax camera from the clubs.
 

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Hero said:
You should post the pictures you took with your pentax camera from the clubs.
I did post some of them a few weeks ago, but as i said, they weren't gonna stay up forever. You're too late :(
 

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I always have my camera on me. Not just when I go to the club, but always. It's small enough that I can keep it in my pocket without it being a burden and it takes awesome pictures.

As for the club, no one has ever had a problem with me bringing in a camera. The only place I could see them having one would be in a place that showed nudity or sexual acts, which are places I don't pay to go into.

I've also found that having a camera is the ultimate pickup tool.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116142

Happy hunting
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Heres a few, although the quality isn't the greatest.




 

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I keep thinking this thread is about the band Coheed and Cambria when I glance at it quickly
 

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kdnash82 said:
I always have my camera on me. Not just when I go to the club, but always. It's small enough that I can keep it in my pocket without it being a burden and it takes awesome pictures.

As for the club, no one has ever had a problem with me bringing in a camera. The only place I could see them having one would be in a place that showed nudity or sexual acts, which are places I don't pay to go into.

I've also found that having a camera is the ultimate pickup tool.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116142

Happy hunting

Sup kdnash82, how you been buddy?
 

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Hero said:
Sup kdnash82, how you been buddy?
Wussup Hero.... Not a whole lot here... Been doing the family thing and I'm in the process of moving in with my future family (we're giving up the ultimate bachelors pad). Looks like my players card will be placed in a "break in case of emergency glass" for the time being.

You got plans for thanksgiving? If not, feel free to hit me up. I'm headed over to a friends house. It's not gonna be a hoe-asis (they're all married) like my party was, but should still be a good time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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g g g unit

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Im sure people who bring cameras to clubs are linked to al qaeda.
 
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