"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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david90

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I went last night and I got over the fear of dancing but the results were dissappointing. I see a lot of groups of girls that dance together and it is hard to breaking them out of their circle. I usually come up from behind or from the side and start dancing to get their attention but they won't dance with me. They contineued to dance with other girls.

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girls always be dancing in groups

there's great clubbing stuff in the bible, check that out
 
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It is very hard to pick up while girls are dancing. If they do end up dancing with you (grinding) it is usually for the girls entertainment and usually ends up as a **** tease because you have not showed her friends that you are a "nice guy" hence, thet will take her away from you.

I used to be the guy going up to girls while they are dancing and getting a good make out session going on but nothing ever happens after. This situation is when your LOOKS matter A LOT. I am very average so its hard for me to pull off.

So, I personally just try to pick up on girls that are around the bar and the dance floor.
 
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Originally posted by david90
I went last night and I got over the fear of dancing but the results were dissappointing. I see a lot of groups of girls that dance together and it is hard to breaking them out of their circle. I usually come up from behind or from the side and start dancing to get their attention but they won't dance with me. They contineued to dance with other girls.

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.
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DONT go up behind girls and start dancing. Unless they are drunk they will think you are a creep. Trust me I hear their conversations when guys come up from behind and starting grinding on them. If anything approach, start dancing with the girl you want to and if she says no then walk off. Better yet do like me, learn to dance really well and attract your own attention, then girls will want to dance with you.
 
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Originally posted by david90

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.
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Not most, but a lot of them do. Kind of ironic huh?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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