clubbing question

[david90]

I went last night and I got over the fear of dancing but the results were dissappointing. I see a lot of groups of girls that dance together and it is hard to breaking them out of their circle. I usually come up from behind or from the side and start dancing to get their attention but they won't dance with me. They contineued to dance with other girls.

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.

 

[dyce]

girls always be dancing in groups

there's great clubbing stuff in the bible, check that out

 

[psychgrad]

It is very hard to pick up while girls are dancing. If they do end up dancing with you (grinding) it is usually for the girls entertainment and usually ends up as a **** tease because you have not showed her friends that you are a "nice guy" hence, thet will take her away from you.

I used to be the guy going up to girls while they are dancing and getting a good make out session going on but nothing ever happens after. This situation is when your LOOKS matter A LOT. I am very average so its hard for me to pull off.

So, I personally just try to pick up on girls that are around the bar and the dance floor.

 

[SeldomSeen]

Originally posted by david90
I went last night and I got over the fear of dancing but the results were dissappointing. I see a lot of groups of girls that dance together and it is hard to breaking them out of their circle. I usually come up from behind or from the side and start dancing to get their attention but they won't dance with me. They contineued to dance with other girls.

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.

DONT go up behind girls and start dancing. Unless they are drunk they will think you are a creep. Trust me I hear their conversations when guys come up from behind and starting grinding on them. If anything approach, start dancing with the girl you want to and if she says no then walk off. Better yet do like me, learn to dance really well and attract your own attention, then girls will want to dance with you.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by david90

Do most girls go to clubs to dance with their friends or something? Maybe it is because of my bad dancing cuz i'm a newbie at it.

Not most, but a lot of them do. Kind of ironic huh?