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Clubbing, Dancing and a weird situation

vp171s

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So tomorrow I'm going out for a friend's birthday party thingy. This girl is friends with a girl I'm after.

Anyways the game plan is, unfortunately, I have to pick them both up and we're meeting up with more people for dinner then clubbing.

So here's my little problem. I'm not big on the whole clubbing scene. Thus I'm not big on the whole dancing thing. The girl I'm after, kind of has 14 years of proffesional dancing experience, ballroom salsa etc. She's already offered me dancing lessons before in exchange for me helping her out in a class, so maybe this is a way to capitalize on it all?

Now obviously I don't plan to impress but what do you guys think would be an appropriate way to approach the whole thing? Obviously there is potential for things to get hot so I'm open to good ways to handle different situations.

Even though I'm driving I plan to get a few drinks in me just so I can losen up for the clubbing. After 2 hours of clubbing (or however long people club for?) I should be sober again.

So anything to avoid, maybe things to do?

It's kind of a new experience for me.
 

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Don't drink too much.

Act like you don't give a crap about not knowing about the fancy dancing. She has 14 years experience... she'll think she has something over you.
 

blinkwatt

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Just role with the music,copy other's movements. I know it can be uncomfortable,I dont listen to rap or hip hop ever,so all the music is new to me. Try to flow with the music and let her grind you. Trust me the chicks do 90% of the work in clubs. All in all it will be a learning expierence,so remember take it slow when you first get in there and observe others.
 

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Try to follow her movements and let your body flow with hers. Drink a little bit of alcahol if it helps.
 
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