I just started going to the clubs this summer - I've been maybe 10 times in total. I'm not that great at clubs yet although I have a great time there every night out. But anyways, on to the story...
Went with a few buddies out to the club on the weekend. I'm havin a good time, I see this girl I know (I actually danced with her for a few songs earlier in the night, she's a friend of one of my best buddies) talking/dancing with a couple girls on the dance floor. So I join in the circle (one of my buddies is there too.) One of this girls friends is really good looking. She is looking at me and I see her askin about me (asks the girl I know about me). She introduces herself to me and her friend. A minute or two later I move up behind her...and she starts backing into me and grindin' me. So anyways for the next 10 minutes we are dancing/having a good time on the dance floor. I'm really excited because this girl is just my type, and a good 7-7.5 and I'm havin a great time. So anyways after like 10 minutes or so she excuses herself to the bathroom - about 5 minutes later she comes back I am just chillen with some friends on the dance floor. She bumps into me and says that she is heading home because the last bus is just about to leave (true.) So it's my last chance and I ask her out...and she says "...Oh yeah I have a boyfriend."
I didn't see that coming at all. I mean why was she asking about me, grinding' on me...flirting and all that. Then she leaves to the bathroom, and comes BACK. So clearly she wasn't trying to blow me off cuz otherwise she coulda just taken off without saying anything. I was so disappointed cuz she was really cool and I was having a good time. Later I found out she apparently thought I was hot...(that's what the girl I know said when she asked about me) so I don't think the boyfriend excuse was made up.
So I was excited that I got somewhere at the club (sorta) but at the same time my perspective on clubs has changed. Is this behaviour typical? Was this girl actually interested, but just had a boyfriend? Or is this just typical behaviour that lots of girls do just to get some attention and have fun for a short while?
Went with a few buddies out to the club on the weekend. I'm havin a good time, I see this girl I know (I actually danced with her for a few songs earlier in the night, she's a friend of one of my best buddies) talking/dancing with a couple girls on the dance floor. So I join in the circle (one of my buddies is there too.) One of this girls friends is really good looking. She is looking at me and I see her askin about me (asks the girl I know about me). She introduces herself to me and her friend. A minute or two later I move up behind her...and she starts backing into me and grindin' me. So anyways for the next 10 minutes we are dancing/having a good time on the dance floor. I'm really excited because this girl is just my type, and a good 7-7.5 and I'm havin a great time. So anyways after like 10 minutes or so she excuses herself to the bathroom - about 5 minutes later she comes back I am just chillen with some friends on the dance floor. She bumps into me and says that she is heading home because the last bus is just about to leave (true.) So it's my last chance and I ask her out...and she says "...Oh yeah I have a boyfriend."
I didn't see that coming at all. I mean why was she asking about me, grinding' on me...flirting and all that. Then she leaves to the bathroom, and comes BACK. So clearly she wasn't trying to blow me off cuz otherwise she coulda just taken off without saying anything. I was so disappointed cuz she was really cool and I was having a good time. Later I found out she apparently thought I was hot...(that's what the girl I know said when she asked about me) so I don't think the boyfriend excuse was made up.
So I was excited that I got somewhere at the club (sorta) but at the same time my perspective on clubs has changed. Is this behaviour typical? Was this girl actually interested, but just had a boyfriend? Or is this just typical behaviour that lots of girls do just to get some attention and have fun for a short while?
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