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Club Tactics and Technique Questions

Crissco

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1....Sucessfull night overall...5 makeouts, 8 grinds, overall good time, but I kept getting coock blocked by her girlfriends, how do I get past this?

2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her.

...Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crissco said:
2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her; Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.
This ^

Some clubs have outdoors/sitting areas which you can take her to.

You can tell her friends that you have something awesome to show her (you target) and you will be right back.

If you are in a club with different rooms and music styles, tell her you are really feeling house/rap/etc this moment and you want to dance with her to that beat.

You need some rapport before a girl you met while dancing will go anywhere with you; try talking to her while dancing, show some C&F attitude and bait her. She will then follow you anywhere.
 

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Crissco said:
1....Sucessfull night overall...5 makeouts, 8 grinds, overall good time, but I kept getting coock blocked by her girlfriends, how do I get past this?

2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her.

...Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.

5 makeouts... and you're asking for help?? wtf? If you're making out with girls then you've already isolated them.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crissco

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Szyzzlin said:
5 makeouts... and you're asking for help?? wtf? If you're making out with girls then you've already isolated them.
Dont isolate, just kiss them right there.

how do you get into the kiss close?
Kiss them right there while were grinding, kino with my body before hand.
 

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Get her to leave the club with you for a pub, or a different club to meet up with other friends, or pretty much anything. It helps to have a few people to leave with (your wings and their marks).

As much as people say women are reluctant to leave their mother-hen friends, trust me, if you build rapport, they will ditch those humorless anti-fun meat bags for a chance at a good night.

You seem like you know enough about what you're doing to not really need any more advice than "if the girl's friends are an obstacle, remove the obstacle."

If she jives with you, she'll leave the club with you. You didn't tip-toe around the kiss-close, so no need to tip-toe with a venue change, whether you're going to another club (taking it slow) or going to your/her place (taking it awesome).
 

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I'm still learning night club game, so take this into consideration lightly:

You need to know what your outcome is, because if you make out with her in the club and all of her friends see you two, she may get buyers remorse and not call you back later because she doesn't want to be judged by her friends. I'd prefer to get a number.

When you're dancing, it's best not to touch her too much, to push her away and build that tension instead of being like every other guy and grinding on her like a horny dog and then following her around all night. You want to isolate? Grab her by the hand and take her somewhere that her friends can't see her.
 

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loveshogun- Your right, I have the knowledge, now I have the experience, its certain little things though that I like to ask so I can keep it in the back of my mind for when the situation comes up.

Vice- You basically hit the nail on the head. My thoughts exactly, expect I would change around a bit. I use push/ pull with my body language, then extreme pull and pull her right in, kiss her. Works every time
 

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Stop grinding.

I'm a big believer that if you grind on a chick in a club, you will rarely **** her afterwards. Grinding on her in a club just guarantees her friends are going to try and block you afterwards. I'm even wary of kissing.

I might peck, but that's about it.

Everybody will have a different style, but since I started practicing this mode about 8 years ago, it's been golden. ESPECIALLY in the more posh clubs, guys are expected to be less thirsty than some dude at a trucker bar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sh0t said:
Stop grinding.

I'm a big believer that if you grind on a chick in a club, you will rarely **** her afterwards. Grinding on her in a club just guarantees her friends are going to try and block you afterwards. I'm even wary of kissing.

I might peck, but that's about it.

Everybody will have a different style, but since I started practicing this mode about 8 years ago, it's been golden. ESPECIALLY in the more posh clubs, guys are expected to be less thirsty than some dude at a trucker bar.
Im not always there to fu*k bro. Im there to have a good time, I have other girls I fu*k.

You got me interested though, go on with your method.
 
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