“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1....Sucessfull night overall...5 makeouts, 8 grinds, overall good time, but I kept getting coock blocked by her girlfriends, how do I get past this?

2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her.

...Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crissco said:
2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her; Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.
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This ^

Some clubs have outdoors/sitting areas which you can take her to.

You can tell her friends that you have something awesome to show her (you target) and you will be right back.

If you are in a club with different rooms and music styles, tell her you are really feeling house/rap/etc this moment and you want to dance with her to that beat.

You need some rapport before a girl you met while dancing will go anywhere with you; try talking to her while dancing, show some C&F attitude and bait her. She will then follow you anywhere.
 
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Crissco said:
1....Sucessfull night overall...5 makeouts, 8 grinds, overall good time, but I kept getting coock blocked by her girlfriends, how do I get past this?

2. How do I isolate the girl when im dancing with her.

...Im thinking just take her by the hand, smile and dance with her to another area thats more quiet so we can sit down and talk, then game her.
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5 makeouts... and you're asking for help?? wtf? If you're making out with girls then you've already isolated them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Szyzzlin said:
5 makeouts... and you're asking for help?? wtf? If you're making out with girls then you've already isolated them.
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Dont isolate, just kiss them right there.

how do you get into the kiss close?
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Kiss them right there while were grinding, kino with my body before hand.
 
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Get her to leave the club with you for a pub, or a different club to meet up with other friends, or pretty much anything. It helps to have a few people to leave with (your wings and their marks).

As much as people say women are reluctant to leave their mother-hen friends, trust me, if you build rapport, they will ditch those humorless anti-fun meat bags for a chance at a good night.

You seem like you know enough about what you're doing to not really need any more advice than "if the girl's friends are an obstacle, remove the obstacle."

If she jives with you, she'll leave the club with you. You didn't tip-toe around the kiss-close, so no need to tip-toe with a venue change, whether you're going to another club (taking it slow) or going to your/her place (taking it awesome).
 
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I'm still learning night club game, so take this into consideration lightly:

You need to know what your outcome is, because if you make out with her in the club and all of her friends see you two, she may get buyers remorse and not call you back later because she doesn't want to be judged by her friends. I'd prefer to get a number.

When you're dancing, it's best not to touch her too much, to push her away and build that tension instead of being like every other guy and grinding on her like a horny dog and then following her around all night. You want to isolate? Grab her by the hand and take her somewhere that her friends can't see her.
 
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loveshogun- Your right, I have the knowledge, now I have the experience, its certain little things though that I like to ask so I can keep it in the back of my mind for when the situation comes up.

Vice- You basically hit the nail on the head. My thoughts exactly, expect I would change around a bit. I use push/ pull with my body language, then extreme pull and pull her right in, kiss her. Works every time
 
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Stop grinding.

I'm a big believer that if you grind on a chick in a club, you will rarely **** her afterwards. Grinding on her in a club just guarantees her friends are going to try and block you afterwards. I'm even wary of kissing.

I might peck, but that's about it.

Everybody will have a different style, but since I started practicing this mode about 8 years ago, it's been golden. ESPECIALLY in the more posh clubs, guys are expected to be less thirsty than some dude at a trucker bar.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stop grinding.

I'm a big believer that if you grind on a chick in a club, you will rarely **** her afterwards. Grinding on her in a club just guarantees her friends are going to try and block you afterwards. I'm even wary of kissing.

I might peck, but that's about it.

Everybody will have a different style, but since I started practicing this mode about 8 years ago, it's been golden. ESPECIALLY in the more posh clubs, guys are expected to be less thirsty than some dude at a trucker bar.
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Im not always there to fu*k bro. Im there to have a good time, I have other girls I fu*k.

You got me interested though, go on with your method.
 
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