Club scene..... how can I make up for what i did.....

[hb]

I was at a club tonight. At first I was having trouble breaking the ice with dancing. By the time I decide to get in there and dance, the dj chances the music to a different type of music. I dont know how to dance to this music so i decided i wouldnt dance. Now im just standing there like a ****. My boy goes over and bags this girl and starts talkin to her and ****. I was feeling her friend. My boy tells me to come dance with her but I wouldnt cause i didnt know how. The girls goes hes shy and just starts dancing and forgets about me. We are supposed to chill with these girls this weekend. How am i supposed to explain to her why I wasnt dancing? she saw me standing all night... I dont want her to think im AFC anyone got any tips on this? What do i tell her? damnnnn i seem like a pu@$y.

Drinking might have helped but i was driving that night.

 

[Engetsu]

You already screwed up.

If I was in your position, during your next date, I would say honestly that I was a bit shy last time, because it's not in my habits to talk to strangers every night. You come off as classy, and as long as you don't fùck up next time and everything goes smoothly, you're in.

 

[tom121]

tell her you don't know how to dance, so you didn't want to make a fool of yourself

also if you were observing her during that night, ask her to teach you some of her moves or just ask her to teach you how to dance

 

[coolwater]

Who ****ing cares man. She doesn't, why do you? You didn't feel like dancing, so what? You gonna write the whole club a letter of apology? Just act as if nothing weird happened (it didn't!) and regame her as normal.

coolwater

 

[manicmaximum]

Originally posted by coolwater
Who ****ing cares man. She doesn't, why do you? You didn't feel like dancing, so what? You gonna write the whole club a letter of apology? Just act as if nothing weird happened (it didn't!) and regame her as normal.

coolwater

hahah letter of apology. gold

i gotta use that one whenever i'm talkin to my friends who feel guilty about their lack of rhythm.

 

[Anaxibios]

Heh I agree w tom, why not try and learn... not only will it show self-confidence, i bet you'd have a lot of fun, too (w the right approach)... plus clubs are so dark and smoky no one will care at all...

 

[oda]

If I ever get caught in a situation where I'm not dancing, or not dancing well I'll always tell a girl: "I save my good moves for the bed."

 

[Desdinova]

What I've noticed is women absolutely love to dance. The chumps will sit or stand by while the women are up there dancing. Chumps figure it's better not to dance than make an idiot of themselves.

I've gone out and proved that women don't really care that much if a guy can dance or not. They just want somebody to dance with! Whether you can show off or not on the dance floor doesn't matter. What matters is that you don't care what others think, as long as you're having a good time. Women will notice a guy trying to dance more than a guy trying to look cool by sitting down. They'll think, "Wow, this guy is just out to have fun" and they'll be drawn to him so they can have fun too.

 

[pimpin' reloaded>>]

damnnn....

hommie...a wish a waz in your shoes...ok don get me wrong i got moves..but av used that same line of i cant dance some particular musiq just to get my ass close to a gal for a dance lesson..
one thing i learnt is when a female teaches you somethin...it sticks in her head as a romantic moment....see most guyz try to emulate an image of the all knowing supreme being...thus cant own up to females on their short comings...ladiez are gettin tired of this shyt..a mean they fightin fo equal rights..giv em' a chance...they lov it when they think they in control..sneak in thru that son..
ama giv ya hint...if yu have the chance of gettin thoz lessons from her..do yo best to learn em''..another thing is spice her moves up with some of yours...y'all could even form a dance partnership str8 to yo sheets son...

aww and another thing...keep tha shy guy image on for a bit...but be exzplosive when yu get the chance...surprise her...