"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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club pickup help please.

Megabf

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so i just gave up on my gf. im trying to erase all memories of her because hit hurts my heart to think of her. i took you guy's advice.:eek:
i read some of the dj bible and decided to follow it. it said what i did was right so im happy. i went to the club with my mom (she's a clubber, whoever weird that sounds) and decided i would give this dj stuff a go. my mom was naggin me to go find more chicks and move on so i did.

i walked up to this girl sitting alone with her arms crossed and turned on my ****y confident attitude. it went something like this i dont really remember

Me: hi

Her: what do you want?!...cutey lol

Me: oooh you scared me. you're like a witch....*****

Her: oh really? how cute

Me: ummm...wanna dance

Her:eek:k

so we dance and she did this weird butt thing where she rubbed her butt on my private area. i liked it so i just went with what she was doing.
after we danced i tried to get her tele number

Me: listen, i really like u and i want your number. can i have it so we can go out sometime?

Her: i have a bf. sorry but when i break up with him i'll look you up

Me: ok! i'll be waiting for you

she then ran off and started talking to some other guy. might have been her bf i dont know

i'm trying to become a studly social butterfly and get another gf. how can i do that better in the club. i think i'm off to a great start.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker

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You should have reframed her "I have a boyfriend" bull**** back to you being the prize in the interaction. This is a test.
 
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