Club game is all about looks

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Turuwal

Senior Don Juan

Jan 13, 2014

Ahhhhh.... no.

The craziest guy I ever knew was probably no better than a 6.5 and skinny as all f*ck. Him and his bisexual girlfriend used to go out in underground clubs in San Francisco, pick up other women and couples, and bring them back to their room for orgies. They absolutely oozed sexuality, more than any other couple in the club. Before he met his girlfriend he was running 6 FBs.

The thing that set him apart from everyone else was his killer "there's no such thing as tomorrow" attitude.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.