Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Club game is all about looks

Konada

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Went to a club today. In a place that's noisy as fck, the only way to get attention is via looks!

If you're skinny as fvck that half the girls there are bigger than you, good luck fighting an uphill better vs your average build guys. Chances are you will be ignored throughout the whole.night.

Writing this tipsy but I guess it holds a lot of truth for us ectomorphs.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well hit the gym then you clotheshanger!
 

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You obviously suck at dancing. Easier to get noticed by being an awesome dancer. Hard to even get a good look at people in a club.... I'm drunk too.
 

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Looks help but confidence and how you approach females in a loud environment is where it counts. Work on your voice and physical aggressiveness in those environments. Lead girls to quieter parts of the club once you've hooked.

Get over the "looks matter" limiting belief. It's marketing that society and businesses force into you in order to buy stupid sh*t. I've seen good looking guys get approached by girls and then get blown out because he sucked.

MillionBillionaire said:
You obviously suck at dancing. Easier to get noticed by being an awesome dancer. Hard to even get a good look at people in a club.... I'm drunk too.
You don't even have to be a good dancer... good enough is good enough. And don't try to get "noticed" by a girl; that's passive "I'm a b*tch-boy" game. Go in hard and lead her.
 

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I know a short ugly spotty guy who constantly has girls around him and he gets them obsessed. No one understands it but fair play to him.

Looks are just one factor of many, turn her on and she wont give a crap what you look like
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clubs are nonsense for picking up chicks. Unless you get a table with bottle service and bring chicks over. Please note you need to have at LEAST one chick you brought with you and your friends not going over a 1 to 4 ratio.

They're pretty useless though. Looks are much of the game. But for your average dude, they can't hear your lines, hear your game, etc. Plus 80 guys already tried.

Save your money. Go to a lounge type place or cool restaurant with a bar. You're much more likely to find a broad there.

And go work out for god's sake.
 

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Dude, do you even lift?
 

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Fat guys get chicks, ugly guys get chicks, and skinny guys get chicks. Dude, you are what you are, embrace your look. Find something that makes you unique and go with it.

Stand out from the heard. :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you want the hottest chicks, you better lift son
 
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Sure, being able to dance helps, but like Vice said, it's all about approaching with confidence. If they aren't interested, fvck 'em, move on to the next.

Honestly, though, I hate clubs. They're a sh1t show that I want no part of anymore.
 

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Stop B*tchin'

Konada said:
Went to a club today. In a place that's noisy as fck, the only way to get attention is via looks!
Then why don't I have chicks just coming up to me as soon as I hit the club?

Konada said:
If you're skinny as fvck that half the girls there are bigger than you, good luck fighting an uphill better vs your average build guys.
Unlike women who have under go evasive surgery, spend thousands of dollars, and have foreign objects inserted into their bodies, all you have to do is eat properly, spend a few hundred dollars on a gym membership or some weights, get a new wardrobe, and possibly stop into Sephora to clear up you're bad skin and learn how to main it.

Konada said:
Chances are you will be ignored throughout the whole.night.
If you go into a club with, find your spot in the corner, holding a drink to your chest, yeah you're going to be ignore. I bet you didn't holla at one chick the whole time your where there.

The problem isn't the "noisey club," "slight build," or dudes that you deemed that are "more handsome,," than you. The problem rests solely with you. Now since you have identified the problems, are you going to do what you need to do to solve them?


Konada said:
Writing this tipsy but I guess it holds a lot of truth for us ectomorphs.
An "ectomorph," doesn't sound nothing nice, so Rex suggests that you stop being one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Johnny Alias said:
Clubs are nonsense for picking up chicks. Unless you get a table with bottle service and bring chicks over. Please note you need to have at LEAST one chick you brought with you and your friends not going over a 1 to 4 ratio.

They're pretty useless though. Looks are much of the game. But for your average dude, they can't hear your lines, hear your game, etc. Plus 80 guys already tried.

Save your money. Go to a lounge type place or cool restaurant with a bar. You're much more likely to find a broad there.

And go work out for god's sake.
FALSE. Getting a bottle is guaranteed to NOT get laid and waste money. Girls will come and drink, but they just use the guys for alcohol and then go home with guys like me. Plus they sneak me drinks from the chodes that bought a bottle LOL
 

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In2theGame said:
When it comes to Clubs, Bars, Lounges... I have pretty good experience in this area and well.... Honestly.. It is about looks if you want to get into the panties asap. However, I have a friend who is incredible at conversations with women and he cleans up too. Are these HB8's and HB9's?... not really but they are still pretty cute. As for me, Many many women have told me that I'm gorgeous, Sexy, Hot etc Ive heard it all and my approach style is different for that very reason. Ive approached HB7's, HB8's with direct openers and have gotten them out in a cab in as fast as 20 minutes ready to F*ck. Why? well because they think I'm really hot and have a great body. When it comes to HB9's?... Ive brought a few back for a ONS but they are a bit more difficult and usually close the deal on Date one or two but definitely need some conversation skills to stir up there emotions. So whats the bad news? Well... Some will be a bit guarded towards me because hey, here is this hot guy talking me up and telling me how sexy he thinks i am lol ;) But im direct like that and that usually sets off a player alarm for some but others eat it up! and love my confidence.

Ive approached all types of sets, even a group of hot women and i know i can get away with it because most likely they will find me attractive. My openers are DIRECT and i use openers such as...."Hey, I i dont mean to bother you, but i saw you a bit earlier and i thought you were really sexy" while I'm touching their waist or if the girl is really hot, Ill stand back for a bit and check her out while guy after guy tries to talk to her and get blown off.... Then i come out like a starving lion out of the bushes... I stroll up from the side but touching her arm or waist... and say "Was that your boyfriend?" When she says no, i proceed with "Oh,.. Okay i thought it might be because i couldnt stop checking you out for the past 15 minutes and was dieing to come say hi" She smiles and... im IN. Again... i get away with this because of my looks.

Overall... Being a very good looking guy is a MASSIVE plus when in places like this but make no mistake, my friends arent bad looking at all but not on the level im at but i never c*ckblock them and if anything i always help them to open up a set or wing if the girl they like is with other girls. Sometimes though my friends may be with a girl and if she gets tipsy she will try to make a move on me and i dont care how cute the girl may be, i never disrespect my friends by taking their girl. i just move away. The best thing to do in these places is play your best asset that suits you... Funny? Make girls laugh. Good at conversations? Then start conversation with a girl that may be standing around. Got money? Well... Offer to buy her a drink and see where it goes.
After all that patting oneself on the back, post pic or gtfo. :)
 

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Damn already getting insulted?... I was just sharing my experiences. Ill delete so i dont get no hate on here and accusing me of trolling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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