"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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club game 101

nightcrawler

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this is a thread for club game.

Being only 24 and only having numerous love affairs, I've actually never tried clubs. Howver my friend tells me it's full of nsa opportunities.

you: "are any of those guys your bf"
her: "nah"
you: "oh ok cuz I don't like getting into trouble...i mean i do sometimes but u know"
her: "yea no worries babez i don't have a bf. I'm drunk and my ***** is wet wanna come back to my place and have sex with me?"
you: "hellz yea"

you: "is he your bf"
her: "yea"
you: "here's my number"

20 mins later at closing

her: my bf is passed out and drunk"
you: lulz are u horny
her: yea
you: where u at
her: my place...he went to his house to take a cab
you: i so wanna come over right now
her: come in my ***** now babes
you: ok
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would be afraid to put my penis in a girl that said those words to me lol
 

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Did this actually happened? if it did, sounds like a case of fool's mate. Whoever "you" is acted like an afc and she's just a slu7, even for night club standards.
 

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r0cky said:
Did this actually happened? if it did, sounds like a case of fool's mate. Whoever "you" is acted like an afc and she's just a slu7, even for night club standards.
he's a troll. Best to just ignore him.

Actually, most people ignore him even when he isn't trolling.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nightcrawler

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Mantis Toboggan said:
he's a troll. Best to just ignore him.

Actually, most people ignore him even when he isn't trolling.
I bet I get more daily PM's that you ha!

well like I said I've never even really been to a club...I mean like 3 or 5 times but that doesn't count.

just a hypothetical scenario.

what...did i just put in the best pick up line at the club? is that why you're hating?:crackup:
 
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