"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Club/Dancing song suggestions

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I'm helping my friend who's a DJ find some new/cool songs for upcoming school dance. He is a huge techno/trance freak and don't know much about Pop, Rap and Hiphop. So what are some good dancable songs? Oh yea no metal or classic rock stuff please, I like them but you can't really dance to it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Docs said:
Rap/Hippy Hop. Whatever the radio blows out. Crap.
Most radios suck and play crappy songs. Me and my friend want to avoid the Fergie/Paris Hilton music and play decent music I was thinkin the lines of "Beautiful" by Snoop dog ft. Pharrel kind of stuff.
 

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It's too bad rap is all screwed up now. You throw some Tupac on by request at the clubs here, and the place goes completely bonkers. Even a few 50 Cent songs..oddly enough, seem to really get a place going. There's good rap hiding around, and even some lesser...good rap sometimes is the kick a place needs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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