"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Club/Dancing song suggestions

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I'm helping my friend who's a DJ find some new/cool songs for upcoming school dance. He is a huge techno/trance freak and don't know much about Pop, Rap and Hiphop. So what are some good dancable songs? Oh yea no metal or classic rock stuff please, I like them but you can't really dance to it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Docs said:
Rap/Hippy Hop. Whatever the radio blows out. Crap.
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Most radios suck and play crappy songs. Me and my friend want to avoid the Fergie/Paris Hilton music and play decent music I was thinkin the lines of "Beautiful" by Snoop dog ft. Pharrel kind of stuff.
 
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It's too bad rap is all screwed up now. You throw some Tupac on by request at the clubs here, and the place goes completely bonkers. Even a few 50 Cent songs..oddly enough, seem to really get a place going. There's good rap hiding around, and even some lesser...good rap sometimes is the kick a place needs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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