"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's up with that? Why do they do it? I've drinking from one bottle with someone. Another chick offered me half a glass of beer. I always think it's a waste not to drink a bought drink fully. Are they just being generous or should I see it as an IOI or some kind of test?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's not that simple is it? There must be a difference in interest level if a HB is drinking with you or giving you the remainder of her drink.
 

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LOL ARE YOU FVCKING STUPID?!!!!!!what the **** is wrong with your self-esteem
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha yeah, it comes down to me not escalating. Need to work on kino/closing. Though I am happy chicks dig me a lot, I came a long way :)
 

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babsan said:
What's up with that? Why do they do it? I've drinking from one bottle with someone. Another chick offered me half a glass of beer. I always think it's a waste not to drink a bought drink fully. Are they just being generous or should I see it as an IOI or some kind of test?
Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?:D
 

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One time a chick gave me half a beer, and I ended up crapping my pants for the next 12 hours.....:moon:
 

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"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"

This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice? ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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babsan said:
"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"

This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice? ;)
Then do as you feel like it, either way it's all good.:)
 

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I got GHB'd by a girl one time. That wasn't so fun:(
 
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