"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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babsan

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What's up with that? Why do they do it? I've drinking from one bottle with someone. Another chick offered me half a glass of beer. I always think it's a waste not to drink a bought drink fully. Are they just being generous or should I see it as an IOI or some kind of test?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's not that simple is it? There must be a difference in interest level if a HB is drinking with you or giving you the remainder of her drink.
 

TheTrader

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LOL ARE YOU FVCKING STUPID?!!!!!!what the **** is wrong with your self-esteem
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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babsan

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haha yeah, it comes down to me not escalating. Need to work on kino/closing. Though I am happy chicks dig me a lot, I came a long way :)
 

Le Parisien

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babsan said:
What's up with that? Why do they do it? I've drinking from one bottle with someone. Another chick offered me half a glass of beer. I always think it's a waste not to drink a bought drink fully. Are they just being generous or should I see it as an IOI or some kind of test?
Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?:D
 

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One time a chick gave me half a beer, and I ended up crapping my pants for the next 12 hours.....:moon:
 

babsan

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"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"

This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice? ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Le Parisien

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babsan said:
"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"

This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice? ;)
Then do as you feel like it, either way it's all good.:)
 

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I got GHB'd by a girl one time. That wasn't so fun:(
 
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