What's up with that? Why do they do it? I've drinking from one bottle with someone. Another chick offered me half a glass of beer. I always think it's a waste not to drink a bought drink fully. Are they just being generous or should I see it as an IOI or some kind of test?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
club babes offering you beer
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doggystyle
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half a glass! tell them to get you a full pint!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?babsan said:
Mr_knowit_all
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One time a chick gave me half a beer, and I ended up crapping my pants for the next 12 hours.....:moon:
"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"
This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice?
This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Then do as you feel like it, either way it's all good.babsan said:"Was she drinking with you, or she just couldn't drink it anymore and gave it to the first cheap chump who would take it?"
This HB bought two beers and let me sip both while we were having fun. Might see her again soon, should I get her a drink this time or is that too nice?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I got GHB'd by a girl one time. That wasn't so fun