Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I went shopping and actually picked up some jeans I always wear cargos so I got the quicksilver relaxed jeans.... everyone tells me they look better then cargos and my girlfriend thinks it makes me "look sexy" .... I am curious do any of you have this where u look better in jeans.. And what are some good ones to get but not over expensive cuz i paid $56 for those... I was looking and anchor blue has some for $30... JC penny ... $20.. I like the darker colors.. Anyway what are some good jeans?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm into carpenter jeans from wherever man, those are the most comfortable and the perfect amount of bagginess in my opinion...
 
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what area are u from in WA? and yeah i just dont like the plain stonewash blue colored ones though really i like dark ones with a LITTLE faid .. i think alot of faids look gay.. literly
 
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I'm from a litle town near redmond, about 30-45 min away from seattle

- yeah I'm into the darker too, goes better with clothes an dlooks more mature
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look, Jeans are expensive, if you want to get a pair of jeans, make sure their high quality and treat them well…Im into urban clothes, but Old navy has the best, high quality jeans…its worth the money
 
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Just make sure they're the right length and bagginess to suit you... get different shades of blue, don't get all the same color. Otherwise you'll seem like you always wear the same thing. Girls really do notice nice pants, believe it or not.
 
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i wear abercrombie faded blue ones to the clubs with a black express (button up) shirt.

to all you fags who think those pants are GAY, think again. In the right places they actually WORK, ie clubs....

in public (malls, etc.) they look stupid because you look like your dressing up for any everyday thing and only homo's do that.

wear regular aeropostale BLUE JEANS for like 15-20 bucks.

nuff said, woop woop!
 
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best place to buy jeans are Gap factory outlets........its the same stuff as the regular GAP but way cheaper and fit perfect. i bought three pairs of jeans there for twenty bucks each. I wouldnt recommned Aeropstale because there **** is cheap and u can tell its cheap. I would rather wear old navy before Aero wear.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok people, why has anyone yet to mention express? theyre having a $20 off jean sale right now! and express has some of the nicest jeans ive ever seen. you may wanna check out this site. www.expressfashion.com because express is the way to go if you wanna look hot.
 
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Originally posted by guardian
ok people, why has anyone yet to mention express? theyre having a $20 off jean sale right now! and express has some of the nicest jeans ive ever seen. you may wanna check out this site. www.expressfashion.com because express is the way to go if you wanna look hot.
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i rock expresss but sometimes there prices are too much...i only shop there if its a sale.
 
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Dang those express clothes are NICE! but i only have about $100 spending money left a month well i have more then that left but still it sucks and those clothes are expensive haha but nice and the store is about an hour drive from here.... DAMN i need more hours.. and starting next month i gotta pay my car insureance :( so $100 a month is all ill have left ahhh lol

Is it good to go shopping with girls who could tell you if you look sexy or guy friends who probly know whats "in"
 
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I prefer to buy clothes by myself. I can take my time and i dont have some homo friend b1tching about time or whatever. Girls are ok but sh1t, who wants to go shopping with a girl?

Just roll solo, you'll fine the right clothes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by wh01987
Is it good to go shopping with girls who could tell you if you look sexy or guy friends who probly know whats "in"
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i wouldnt go shopping with a girl cause they may just use u as a Ken doll and make u look dumb or have u buying the most expensive stuff. just search the net see what looks good then take the trip to the mall.
 
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Go shopping with a girl and you'll realize you know more about what clothes they like than they do. Go shopping with friends and they'll always have something to b!tch and moan about... Julian's right, go solo.
 
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alright that soudns good thanks
 
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i prefer GAP jeans they seem to be the only ones that fit me right, and if your living in a cold place dont be afraid to rock the scarf it adds a little bit of flavour to whatever your wearing
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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