I've been reading alot on this site about what clothes are good and whatnot, but what I normally wear to school is a plain white t-shirt with blue jeans or khaki pants. I wear bland clothing like this because I take alot of automotive classes, and I don't wanna get my good clothes dirty/greasy. Is this all that bad, or should I consider anoth alternative? Thanks.
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Can you bring a change of clothes for your auto classes?
Style is definitely a way to stand out. I'm a freshman in college, but just the other day i got out of work and had to go to a class in my work clothes. I was wearing a nice fitted shirt, slacks, and a plain black slim tie for work. Definitely excessive for school, but when you feel like you look good, you feel confident; and you get looks. Girls will check you out if you stand out in a good way. In the winter, I wear some cashmere argyle sweaters and slacks or tighter fitted jeans. In the summer, light weight collared shirt with khaki shorts, not cargo shorts. Of course, style is all about you, it's all about what makes you confident while standing out a bit.
I dress "nicely" because it makes me feel confident, and in my eyes boosts my value and shows that I have my **** together.
Style is definitely a way to stand out. I'm a freshman in college, but just the other day i got out of work and had to go to a class in my work clothes. I was wearing a nice fitted shirt, slacks, and a plain black slim tie for work. Definitely excessive for school, but when you feel like you look good, you feel confident; and you get looks. Girls will check you out if you stand out in a good way. In the winter, I wear some cashmere argyle sweaters and slacks or tighter fitted jeans. In the summer, light weight collared shirt with khaki shorts, not cargo shorts. Of course, style is all about you, it's all about what makes you confident while standing out a bit.
I dress "nicely" because it makes me feel confident, and in my eyes boosts my value and shows that I have my **** together.
I sometimes wear coveralls when welding or really getting into a mess. This does make sense, but I'm not the kind of person that usually gets "looks" anyways. I got a few close friends and I usually stick to them.
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Just try changing your style, dressing nice, and you willtony.d said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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eh...i think clothes are not too much to worry about
doesn't matter if you wear a plain shirt and jeans...as long as they're clean and fit..
at my shcool..we have this ****ty dress code...basically i have to wear shirts with collars...so i've been wearing the same maybe 8-10 shirts with collars..some polos..some plaid button up ****..bl;a bla..same **** for 4 years..never hurt my game..girls know that it's just my school set...and when i go out on weekends i wear other stuff
but it seems as though your school has no code...but the point here really is...i could be buying a lot more collared shirts..and having more variety..but ther'es no point because i won't wear these clothes in college probably
and my clothes have not hurt my game..even if i wore this **** on the weekends..i doubt people would care...unless they were shallow
CONFIDENCE IS ALL..and you can be confident in a shirt and jeans
doesn't matter if you wear a plain shirt and jeans...as long as they're clean and fit..
at my shcool..we have this ****ty dress code...basically i have to wear shirts with collars...so i've been wearing the same maybe 8-10 shirts with collars..some polos..some plaid button up ****..bl;a bla..same **** for 4 years..never hurt my game..girls know that it's just my school set...and when i go out on weekends i wear other stuff
but it seems as though your school has no code...but the point here really is...i could be buying a lot more collared shirts..and having more variety..but ther'es no point because i won't wear these clothes in college probably
and my clothes have not hurt my game..even if i wore this **** on the weekends..i doubt people would care...unless they were shallow
CONFIDENCE IS ALL..and you can be confident in a shirt and jeans