I've been reading alot on this site about what clothes are good and whatnot, but what I normally wear to school is a plain white t-shirt with blue jeans or khaki pants. I wear bland clothing like this because I take alot of automotive classes, and I don't wanna get my good clothes dirty/greasy. Is this all that bad, or should I consider anoth alternative? Thanks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Clothes....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dj_jazzybrad
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Can you bring a change of clothes for your auto classes?
Style is definitely a way to stand out. I'm a freshman in college, but just the other day i got out of work and had to go to a class in my work clothes. I was wearing a nice fitted shirt, slacks, and a plain black slim tie for work. Definitely excessive for school, but when you feel like you look good, you feel confident; and you get looks. Girls will check you out if you stand out in a good way. In the winter, I wear some cashmere argyle sweaters and slacks or tighter fitted jeans. In the summer, light weight collared shirt with khaki shorts, not cargo shorts. Of course, style is all about you, it's all about what makes you confident while standing out a bit.
I dress "nicely" because it makes me feel confident, and in my eyes boosts my value and shows that I have my **** together.
Style is definitely a way to stand out. I'm a freshman in college, but just the other day i got out of work and had to go to a class in my work clothes. I was wearing a nice fitted shirt, slacks, and a plain black slim tie for work. Definitely excessive for school, but when you feel like you look good, you feel confident; and you get looks. Girls will check you out if you stand out in a good way. In the winter, I wear some cashmere argyle sweaters and slacks or tighter fitted jeans. In the summer, light weight collared shirt with khaki shorts, not cargo shorts. Of course, style is all about you, it's all about what makes you confident while standing out a bit.
I dress "nicely" because it makes me feel confident, and in my eyes boosts my value and shows that I have my **** together.
I sometimes wear coveralls when welding or really getting into a mess. This does make sense, but I'm not the kind of person that usually gets "looks" anyways. I got a few close friends and I usually stick to them.
dj_jazzybrad
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Just try changing your style, dressing nice, and you willtony.d said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jeffthechef
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eh...i think clothes are not too much to worry about
doesn't matter if you wear a plain shirt and jeans...as long as they're clean and fit..
at my shcool..we have this ****ty dress code...basically i have to wear shirts with collars...so i've been wearing the same maybe 8-10 shirts with collars..some polos..some plaid button up ****..bl;a bla..same **** for 4 years..never hurt my game..girls know that it's just my school set...and when i go out on weekends i wear other stuff
but it seems as though your school has no code...but the point here really is...i could be buying a lot more collared shirts..and having more variety..but ther'es no point because i won't wear these clothes in college probably
and my clothes have not hurt my game..even if i wore this **** on the weekends..i doubt people would care...unless they were shallow
CONFIDENCE IS ALL..and you can be confident in a shirt and jeans
doesn't matter if you wear a plain shirt and jeans...as long as they're clean and fit..
at my shcool..we have this ****ty dress code...basically i have to wear shirts with collars...so i've been wearing the same maybe 8-10 shirts with collars..some polos..some plaid button up ****..bl;a bla..same **** for 4 years..never hurt my game..girls know that it's just my school set...and when i go out on weekends i wear other stuff
but it seems as though your school has no code...but the point here really is...i could be buying a lot more collared shirts..and having more variety..but ther'es no point because i won't wear these clothes in college probably
and my clothes have not hurt my game..even if i wore this **** on the weekends..i doubt people would care...unless they were shallow
CONFIDENCE IS ALL..and you can be confident in a shirt and jeans