"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aight i'm gonna go to the mall tomorrow and buy a shiz load of clothes cause my old ones don't fit me anymore. wut stores/brands or clothing looks good?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go shopping with a woman, and ask for her opinion because she will have a better sense of fashion than any of us(most likely)
 
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i like american eagle a lot. its a little on the expensive side for some of it, but its pretty high quality so the stuff you buy lasts as long as your gonna wanna wear it for the most part. just make sure it fits, (not too small) and that no one is gonna be a smart ass (like i would do lmao) and ask you why you shop at the baby gap haha. you gotta be careful tho cuz if your style is more loose fitting stuff then am. eagle probly isnt where ur at. it just looks kinda goofy if its worn too big
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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its all about accesories:

hanchercheif on head but beneath hat
hat
hancherchief tied to arm
arm band
wrist band
diamond earings
leather necklace with vintage-looking charm
necktight necklace with seashells
hemp necklace with "stoner" charm
leather bracelet
hemp bracelet which you tie on and never take off
cell phone (iphone with at&t at $60/month)
leather sandals
"skater" shoes
brown leather belt
belt buckle that has picture of a horse
t-shirt that says "property of________"
hoodie that says "montana" and has a mountain on it
jeans: ripped, sandblasted, bleached, boot cut, 32 x 30
and if its cold, a vest jacket similar to the one you have but with a 70s retro look
 
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First of all, Crazy Asian.. You're 15... So you'll prolly fit with the Abercrombie, Hollister, and American Eagle crowd...



I don't suggest buying all your clothes at one time! Buy a nice pair of shoes to go with your overall new look...

I like the new Framework shoes by Lacoste...

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/28913445/c/69651.html

Get 2-3 nice pairs of jeans.. I prefer the low rise, boot cut fits... The darker shade of jeans is in right now, and they look fabulous. Since you're 15, I would go for the "distressed" treated jeans.

You can buy some nice T-Shirts and Polos from Abercrombie and Hollister.. You're 15, so those should go for you..
 
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For shoes I suggest the Nike Airforce 1 midtops ($80). It's clean and matches with everything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If there's one thing you've gotta learn about this forum, it's to do a ****ing search. There's been plenty of highschool fashion threads already.


And don't pay attention to any of these other noobs, they mostly don't know what the **** they're talking about.
 
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Do a search. This has been answered a ton of times before.
 
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