"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aight i'm gonna go to the mall tomorrow and buy a shiz load of clothes cause my old ones don't fit me anymore. wut stores/brands or clothing looks good?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go shopping with a woman, and ask for her opinion because she will have a better sense of fashion than any of us(most likely)
 
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i like american eagle a lot. its a little on the expensive side for some of it, but its pretty high quality so the stuff you buy lasts as long as your gonna wanna wear it for the most part. just make sure it fits, (not too small) and that no one is gonna be a smart ass (like i would do lmao) and ask you why you shop at the baby gap haha. you gotta be careful tho cuz if your style is more loose fitting stuff then am. eagle probly isnt where ur at. it just looks kinda goofy if its worn too big
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its all about accesories:

hanchercheif on head but beneath hat
hat
hancherchief tied to arm
arm band
wrist band
diamond earings
leather necklace with vintage-looking charm
necktight necklace with seashells
hemp necklace with "stoner" charm
leather bracelet
hemp bracelet which you tie on and never take off
cell phone (iphone with at&t at $60/month)
leather sandals
"skater" shoes
brown leather belt
belt buckle that has picture of a horse
t-shirt that says "property of________"
hoodie that says "montana" and has a mountain on it
jeans: ripped, sandblasted, bleached, boot cut, 32 x 30
and if its cold, a vest jacket similar to the one you have but with a 70s retro look
 
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First of all, Crazy Asian.. You're 15... So you'll prolly fit with the Abercrombie, Hollister, and American Eagle crowd...



I don't suggest buying all your clothes at one time! Buy a nice pair of shoes to go with your overall new look...

I like the new Framework shoes by Lacoste...

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/28913445/c/69651.html

Get 2-3 nice pairs of jeans.. I prefer the low rise, boot cut fits... The darker shade of jeans is in right now, and they look fabulous. Since you're 15, I would go for the "distressed" treated jeans.

You can buy some nice T-Shirts and Polos from Abercrombie and Hollister.. You're 15, so those should go for you..
 
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For shoes I suggest the Nike Airforce 1 midtops ($80). It's clean and matches with everything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If there's one thing you've gotta learn about this forum, it's to do a ****ing search. There's been plenty of highschool fashion threads already.


And don't pay attention to any of these other noobs, they mostly don't know what the **** they're talking about.
 
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Do a search. This has been answered a ton of times before.
 
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