Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Clothes for the budding young professional

dtrg

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Hey I'm turning 21 in a couple months and my wardrobe is left over from high school. I'm at a university now and I'll have internship and job interviews coming my way in the near future. What some clothing lines or stores you suggest for conveying a serious working attitude but not too serious. Something young, energetic, ready to work. I have a pale complexion with dark longish hair and I'm 5'8". I know I'll have to go out and try on some styles but what do you suggest?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, depending on where you're applying, I'd go with slacks and a polo or slacks and a shirt and tie (think POWER TIE!!!) And just like with women, confidence is key in job interviews too. Even if you have no experience, tenaciousness makes up for a lot.
 

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dtrg said:
Hey I'm turning 21 in a couple months and my wardrobe is left over from high school. I'm at a university now and I'll have internship and job interviews coming my way in the near future. What some clothing lines or stores you suggest for conveying a serious working attitude but not too serious. Something young, energetic, ready to work. I have a pale complexion with dark longish hair and I'm 5'8". I know I'll have to go out and try on some styles but what do you suggest?

Goto Express for Men, H&M, and Nordstrom Rack.

Express has the best slacks I've ever worn. Expect $100 per pair, but it is very worth it.

H&M makes a lot of nice shirts and pants at good prices. Though they're still expanding, so they may or may not be in your area.

Nordstrom rack is kinda like a treasure hunt.

2 pants, 5 shirts, 10 outfits.
 
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