"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clothes for the budding young professional

dtrg

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Hey I'm turning 21 in a couple months and my wardrobe is left over from high school. I'm at a university now and I'll have internship and job interviews coming my way in the near future. What some clothing lines or stores you suggest for conveying a serious working attitude but not too serious. Something young, energetic, ready to work. I have a pale complexion with dark longish hair and I'm 5'8". I know I'll have to go out and try on some styles but what do you suggest?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, depending on where you're applying, I'd go with slacks and a polo or slacks and a shirt and tie (think POWER TIE!!!) And just like with women, confidence is key in job interviews too. Even if you have no experience, tenaciousness makes up for a lot.
 

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dtrg said:
Hey I'm turning 21 in a couple months and my wardrobe is left over from high school. I'm at a university now and I'll have internship and job interviews coming my way in the near future. What some clothing lines or stores you suggest for conveying a serious working attitude but not too serious. Something young, energetic, ready to work. I have a pale complexion with dark longish hair and I'm 5'8". I know I'll have to go out and try on some styles but what do you suggest?

Goto Express for Men, H&M, and Nordstrom Rack.

Express has the best slacks I've ever worn. Expect $100 per pair, but it is very worth it.

H&M makes a lot of nice shirts and pants at good prices. Though they're still expanding, so they may or may not be in your area.

Nordstrom rack is kinda like a treasure hunt.

2 pants, 5 shirts, 10 outfits.
 
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