"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Uncharted

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The best thing you can do is start working out (losing weight or putting on muscle). Then when you buy slim-fit (or whatever) clothes, they will fit you better and you will FEEL BETTER (more confident). You don't have to have a Zegna suit just basic clothes, but as long as it makes you feel more confident you're doing it right.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pinkfl

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Yes. We care.
But mainly we care if you can fix yourself up
Can't go wrong with one good pair of well fitting jeans and a button down shirt
 

expos

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Recently I've been going to Target and some other cheaper retailers and buy dress shirts. I'll bring them in to a seamstress and she'll tailor them to my body. $20 shirt with a $150-level fit.

Never go cheap on shoes....
 

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It depends on the girl. Some woman like certain styles. Some aren't too picky. It varies, really.

If I see a girl rocking some jordans and she's a 6 that alone would bump her up by .5 = 6 1/2.

If a chick likes you, digs you, and you dress up nice, good style, that bumps up her attraction level even more. If she's not that interested the effect is not the same.
 

SamTheHobit

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Cloths is incredibly important.

I often dress really lazy. Ie tracksuit old shirt shoddy shoes when I go to the mall. And I get no women checking me out.

But when it have nice jeans shoes and nice jersey. Get a lot of eyes from women.

Above all else I honestly feel a thousand times better about myself when I dress up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To be fair, I don't think it's a deal breaker unless you look like a tramp.

However you dress, 2-3 months into a relationship she'll make it her little project to 'align your wardrobe to her tastes' anyway :)
 

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Fit trumps everything. Make sure everything is not too baggy and you aren't swimming in your clothes. It just makes you look sloppy.

I buy 70% of my clothes from second-hand shops and get complimented on my style all the time. I will pay more for designer jeans but if you think about it, they will last a lifetime.

If you have no sense of style, find someone who does to go shopping with you.

Dress for yourself because it makes you happy.
 

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Jair213 said:
It depends on the girl. Some woman like certain styles. Some aren't too picky. It varies, really.

If I see a girl rocking some jordans and she's a 6 that alone would bump her up by .5 = 6 1/2.

If a chick likes you, digs you, and you dress up nice, good style, that bumps up her attraction level even more. If she's not that interested the effect is not the same.
Yep, gonna agree here. I definitely appreciate a woman who likes looking good and is up on her fashion game. But if a girl is up on her sneaker game too...bonus points for her. I definitely appreciate a chick in a pair of dunks, jordan 1s, or fresh chucks.
 
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