"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Closing?

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VegasGuy56

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Hey everyone,

Ok, for the last 3 or 4 months I've read all of David DeAngelo's newsletters, bought his book, and have read advice in these forums. The problem is that most of the advice in other books and websites are usually targeted at clubs and places like that.

I've search this forum and it seems like most of the advice here contradicts each other. One person will say something, and someone else will say exactly the opposite.

My problem is that while I've been using the techniques I've learned, and get great responses and have no problem meeting people, I suck at closing.

For some reason, I almost never close. I'm really just looking for some advice. Maybe a recommendation on the best things to read for High Schoolers. Any ideas on the best threads here or something good to read for closing?

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It is much better for your target to feel like she *thought* of giving you her number, instead of asking and demonstrating lower value by supplicating. This will greatly reduce the number of flakes you end up with.

This has personally been field tested in High School by yours truly. Credit goes to Mystery.

"What steps can we take to continue this conversation?"

She will voluntarily say "well, I can give you my number if you want"

This works about 99% of the time for me, even if enough rapport has not been made.

PS- If you use direct game, such as Gunwitch or Grand Master...you must be congruent with you game and must ask for the number directly.

I use indirect game (ie. MM)

Love,
Smooth
 
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