"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Closing?

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Hey everyone,

Ok, for the last 3 or 4 months I've read all of David DeAngelo's newsletters, bought his book, and have read advice in these forums. The problem is that most of the advice in other books and websites are usually targeted at clubs and places like that.

I've search this forum and it seems like most of the advice here contradicts each other. One person will say something, and someone else will say exactly the opposite.

My problem is that while I've been using the techniques I've learned, and get great responses and have no problem meeting people, I suck at closing.

For some reason, I almost never close. I'm really just looking for some advice. Maybe a recommendation on the best things to read for High Schoolers. Any ideas on the best threads here or something good to read for closing?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is much better for your target to feel like she *thought* of giving you her number, instead of asking and demonstrating lower value by supplicating. This will greatly reduce the number of flakes you end up with.

This has personally been field tested in High School by yours truly. Credit goes to Mystery.

"What steps can we take to continue this conversation?"

She will voluntarily say "well, I can give you my number if you want"

This works about 99% of the time for me, even if enough rapport has not been made.

PS- If you use direct game, such as Gunwitch or Grand Master...you must be congruent with you game and must ask for the number directly.

I use indirect game (ie. MM)

Love,
Smooth
 
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