"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi , you know what , i've some problem with closing . I num closed the girl , many , but is it good idea to tell her "i like u you are so georgeous" on Phone ( sms game) . I dont like very much the idea of dating 'cause i dont have enough time ( i have to take an exam ).
How about you do you ever face that difficulty and how do you deal with it ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That message over text sucks.

You do have enough time for dating, you're just making excuses. I bet you don't even spend half your time studying for that exam.
 
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Norwegian is right. There is enough time in your life for hobbies, working out, studying, and social life.

Managing to do all of those things requires certain sacrifices: Sacrificing internet, TV, videogames, hanging with the same old guys.

Once you have cut the wasteful time out of your life, then you are allowed to say you don't have time to make progress.

On the text: That has no consideration for her as a human being. You're complimenting her beauty and saying you like her without knowing anything about her yet.
 
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