"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi , you know what , i've some problem with closing . I num closed the girl , many , but is it good idea to tell her "i like u you are so georgeous" on Phone ( sms game) . I dont like very much the idea of dating 'cause i dont have enough time ( i have to take an exam ).
How about you do you ever face that difficulty and how do you deal with it ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That message over text sucks.

You do have enough time for dating, you're just making excuses. I bet you don't even spend half your time studying for that exam.
 
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Norwegian is right. There is enough time in your life for hobbies, working out, studying, and social life.

Managing to do all of those things requires certain sacrifices: Sacrificing internet, TV, videogames, hanging with the same old guys.

Once you have cut the wasteful time out of your life, then you are allowed to say you don't have time to make progress.

On the text: That has no consideration for her as a human being. You're complimenting her beauty and saying you like her without knowing anything about her yet.
 
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