"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Closing on facebook

adamw5963

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Yes another dang facebook question. Ive been chatting with this girl a few days off and on. She seems to be interested. She just does facebook on her phone most of the time, so I can't use the line about how i gotta go can i have your number. So, how should I go about getting her number and asking her to go on a date?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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not very far...just chit chat and joking around bit I've heard it was good to get the number fast. so I was just wondering a way I could ask her for her number.
 

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Ok i asked her for it and she said give me yours...I know thats usually bad but im jw your guys thoughts since ive never actually met her before. Oh yea by the way her number is already in her info but i still wanted to ask for it instead of just texting her.
 
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