"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Closing on facebook

adamw5963

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Yes another dang facebook question. Ive been chatting with this girl a few days off and on. She seems to be interested. She just does facebook on her phone most of the time, so I can't use the line about how i gotta go can i have your number. So, how should I go about getting her number and asking her to go on a date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not very far...just chit chat and joking around bit I've heard it was good to get the number fast. so I was just wondering a way I could ask her for her number.
 

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Update

Ok i asked her for it and she said give me yours...I know thats usually bad but im jw your guys thoughts since ive never actually met her before. Oh yea by the way her number is already in her info but i still wanted to ask for it instead of just texting her.
 
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