"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Closing in a Sauna

Don Rooster

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Now guys its a while since I've posted on here and everything is going well. Best advice I can give any of you is to read Pook and get the hell out and LIVE!!

So, life's going great and lately it got even better. I joined a gym that has a swimming pool and a sauna!! Now the sauna is an absolute gold mine of super hot chicks like you wouldn't believe all in bikinis!

So I'm talking to these girls and everythings going great. But I have no idea where to go from here?? Ask for her number, walk the length of the pool to get my phone in my locker?? Any ideas?? I'm losing out BIG TIME on a wealth of hotness!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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irocknike23

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Uhh I use the Sauna and agree there is hot girls in there......but most are about the size of a 1 bed bedroom with 4-8 people at a time so its kinda awkward to hit on a girl while the other 6 people are listening in.

if its just you and the girl thats one thing but that hardly happens(never happened to me)
 

Don Rooster

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Your off your head!!! I'm not gonna not talk to a girl just coz there's other people around!! Grow a pair man! Come on guys any ideas?? I know you can pull through!
 
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Dude, I don't see how the game would change all that much. You're just dealing with sets in a different location. I would open sets like you would anywhere else, maybe you could tweak what you have to say to the situation:

"Geeze, and you guys thought it was hot in here before I walked in!"

I mean. That might make you sound like an idiot, but I would rather say something stupid, analyze what I said, find out what was wrong, and come up with something better than to have not said anything at all. And if you're in the right state, does it really matter what you say?

Tell a story about how there are guys out there who can walk on hot coals (like the coals they usually have in a suana)

Try and get something going on before you actually get in the suana. Then you're not talking to a total stranger.

Find out why they're there (do they swim, run, lift weights, are they involved in a program your gym offers).

Or just open the girl or the set as you would any other set.

The only differences between a suana and a bar or a bookstore is that you probably have on less clothes, it's really hot, and the room is smaller. Some guys would get freaked out by the fact that he's in a room full of beautiful women in less clothing than he's normally used to seeing. If you can convey the attitude that it's not a big deal and treat the set just like you would if you were anywhere else, I think that's DHV right there.

You could also think of it from the mindset that when you're in the suana, half of their clothes are off. You have less work to do.
 

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Wear shorts and take your phone in the sauna with you. I do it all the time since my phone is my mp3 doesn't hurt it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I really don't understand what you're getting at: do you expect these girls to be wearing fur coats instead?

Usually, there'll be a window of opportunity: she'll announce she is going somewhere first, or is leaving, or wants to do something. Usually, those are all green lights to initiate another get together.

Why does it matter that you "close" them in or after the sauna, btw?

Don Rooster said:
Now guys its a while since I've posted on here and everything is going well. Best advice I can give any of you is to read Pook and get the hell out and LIVE!!

So, life's going great and lately it got even better. I joined a gym that has a swimming pool and a sauna!! Now the sauna is an absolute gold mine of super hot chicks like you wouldn't believe all in bikinis!

So I'm talking to these girls and everythings going great. But I have no idea where to go from here?? Ask for her number, walk the length of the pool to get my phone in my locker?? Any ideas?? I'm losing out BIG TIME on a wealth of hotness!!!
 
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